I'm back again in the wrong category; But I need more advice!? Thanks in advance...?

[Hey man, nice shot!]

Sit back and relax. This is going to be a very long read but please just try to help me out because I'm clueless and desperately need advice. Please.

I have known this guy named Chris for 2 years. We were in a long distance relationship for 5 months last year until he found out that I "hid" a Facebook account with guys on there. He saw a message that I wrote to some other guy asking him if I could call him. Chris blew up at me and cut me out of his life for 8 months.

We got back together this May and he's suicidal (his Mom has cancer). He's about to be kicked out of his house in a week because his Dad gave him a deadline. (That's why I feel bad for ignoring him but please read on).

He told me that he was still jealous over the account he found. He started talking to his ex- girlfriend yesterday out of "spite".

He asked her: "Why'd you break up with me? Because I didn't give you an orgasm?" (That's supposedly a "joke"). He continued to ask "How many guys have you had sex with?" - "Was your ex boyfriend better than me in bed?" Etc. When I confronted him about this (over the phone) he said "I asked her how many guys she's f*ked because of our 'Religion' (they're both Muslim) and the rest was asked as a joke."

I check her twitter, and she says, "I love the fact that my ex-boyfriend (My current boyfriend) still supports me after all of these years. Love you. " That's what hurts the most. That's what hurts... she... gyah.

I got so mad at him I deleted my Facebook, my gmail, and turned my phone off. I think he might have tried to call but I wrote him a letter saying "You don't ask people about their sex lives when you're in a relationship/You're immature, you can't move forward/I need space." I haven't spoken to him in about.. 9 hours now.

It's so difficult. He's writing statuses saying "I hate myself" and "I just want her back". I'm still very mad.

Sometimes I want to talk to him but I just can't get over it! PLEASE somebody help me! What would YOU do?

[Tommy]

I'm sick of this Muslim culture... it stinks...
a guy can screw as many girls he can...
but a girl should be his slave???

[shauna]

Relationships are based on TRUST... You hid a page on him that is a serious way to lose trust... He spoke to an ex about sex... not so much. Anybody can talk to anybody about their sex lives whether they know each other or not.
His talking to his ex because of what you did was spiteful and childish... there was no need for that. You being annyoyed about it ... why??? Don't you trust him?? My boyfriend of 4 years speaks to most of his exes and has very close relationships will loads of girls.... but I trust him i know he wants me and he shows me in many different ways.
If it were me I'd tell him to get over the fb page thing or get over me... the last thing you want is a spiteful boyfriend. As for the ex put it down to a childish discretion on his part.

[Nils]

It's ok to have a relationship with your ex and talk to them but there is a line and I can understand why you feel like that line has been crossed.

I think you need to talk to him and both agree to draw a line under all the things that have happened in the past. He sounds like he is depressed and unhappy and maybe crying for attention wherever he can get it. But if you want a future with this man sit down and talk to him and agree that you will both act as adults from now on. No more secrets and letting out all the anger to do with the past. Be honest with him about how you feel about him contacting your ex and also be willing to let him be honest about how he feels about the fb account. Have it out with each other with the agreement to move on afterwards and start on a clean slate.

You both sound like you care a lot for each other don't let petty issues get in the way. Also don't be upset if he does talk to his ex, people often do it doesn't meant they will run to them, it is you he wants to be with but make it clear what the line is. Its up to him if he chooses to cross it but the consequence is he loses you. Similarly you have to respect that there are things that have upset him in the past and you have to give him mutual respect.