Should I confront my fathers maybe girlfriend?

[Audrey]

I really want to add her Facebook...just to let her know he has a daughter. He has yet to introduce me to her. I want to tell her that she is a homewrecker and she should know not to mess with a married man. I'm just really confused

[no mercy]

yeah, sure, a grown woman will pay some attention to a little spoiled brat. get real and leave your father alone. if your mother was beter with him he wouldn´t need a girlfriend

[Texasmama]

First, I'd talk to your dad. The homewrecker may want more than he does. And then add her Facebook and hell yes, introduce yourself as his daughter and politely let her know that you know what's going on and you don't appreciate it. Good luck to you, sister!

[Abigail]

mmmm no, that is your moms job, not yours. and you say she doesnt know he has a daughter, what if she doesnt know he has a wife? i think your dads to blame for this one. confront your DAD, not her. if he continues to see her and she does know hes married, then id rat your dad out to mom, but still dont step in. if, however at that point he introduces you, say something

and if your dad and mom are separated or in the divorce process, i think you are just being a little uptight about your dad being with someone else. ask that your dad not mention her in front of you, and dont go meet her until your ready.

[charles c]

Confront him with what? When "2" people are together, they are the ones who are looking at the future. I know a friend who after many miserable years of marraige to save the family, asked for a divorce. His wife was not a bit shocked, you see those things start in the bedroom and a prtner usually knows. If you love your dad, let him find happiness.

[Danin]

She won't care, she will just tell your dad about it and he will then become very sneaky. where is the mum in all of this? Maybe she needs to accidently find out and allow her to decide what SHE wants to do about your dad's bad behavior. Your mum deserves respect and if your dad is not going to give it your mother deserves to have a chance to decide whether to stay or go.

You are thinking of your comfort and joy in all of this but how degrading to your mother that you know and your father knows, but she is being manipulated by both of you behind her back.

[freakboynv lives]

mind your business. this is between your parents.