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my friends daughter is my facebook friend and I have seen her recent photos she is only 17 and lots of drinkin?
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my friends daughter is my facebook friend and I have seen her recent photos she is only 17 and lots of drinkin?
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my friends daughter is my facebook friend and I have seen her recent photos she is only 17 and lots of drinkin?
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11-10-2012, 12:58 AM
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my friends daughter is my facebook friend and I have seen her recent photos she is only 17 and lots of drinkin?
and very drunk teens and older guys. I want to know if I should tell her mom. her mom is not on her face book I am concerned for her. I find them desturbing. I want to know what the bible tells us to do.
Oh I know I would like nothing better then to forget what I saw, she posted them and they came to my facebook page I just omited her so I wont get them any more. I know she is drinking because of all the beer and drugs and the guys are older because she told me . I do not want to know any of it but I do now. it is over the top stuff not just a few beers I did not go asking to be her friend she aske me .I do not want to be involved at all but it is disturbing to have seen wht she is up to . her mother and father would be shocked I tell ya and I have been around the block a few times Ads |
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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tell she may be mad now but later it will be all good
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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No don't tell her Mom.
Get the hell off facebook, spy. EVERY TEEN GOES THROUGH A PARTY STAGE. ITS A PICTURE YOU DONT KNOW THEIR DRUNK, AND YOU DONT KNOW HOW OLD THE GUY IS. DONT MAKE ASSUMPTIONS. delete your facebook if thats all you have one for. to spy. wow |
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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Do what your comfortable with ... If you decide to get involved .. then print out the pictures and pass them along to the parental units.
Do what the person in the mirror tells you too ! |
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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I know this seems like a tough dilemma. She is 17 and obviously in a bit of trouble, you feel like its your duty to tell her mother.
But be careful of this. It is not your place to use facebook to spy on your friends daughter and then tattle on her. You should only tell her mother if you really think the situation could lead to SERIOUS harm. Otherwise it is in no way your place to interfere. |
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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Do what your gut says....if this was your daughter..would u want someone to tell u?...we all need to protect and look out for our kids...rather they are ours...or someone else's...(Remember the old saying..it takes a whole village to raise one child)
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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dont tell! thats mean
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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Unfortunately in our society it isn't the person doing wrong that everyone gets mad at, it's the person that tells . This girls Mother is not on the ball. That's what the problem is . 2 Timothy 3:1-5 tell us who to turn away from . If you decide to delete her, be sure to tell her why .
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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Of coruse you should tell her mother not only because she could seriously hurt herself but because her mom is your friend and you sound like you care about her kid. So yea u should tell her ASAP.
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11-10-2012, 01:06 AM
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If she added you, she trusts you. Perhaps talk to her yourself about your concern. Do it in a girlfriend-to-girlfriend way, not as a parental type lecture. Share some of your own bad experiences, as you said you've "been around the block."
Know that a lot of teens experiment and turn out fine, though. Good self-esteem means a lot more to what happens to a girl than her party habits. |
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