How do you make a long distance relationship work out?

[yesiamtheyellowdaisyinthemeadow]

My boyfriend and I go to different high schools. Just recently after two weeks of not seeing him, I found a pic on this old friend of mines facebook profile of my guy carrying her on his shoulders. This signalled to me that as busy as I've been with college apps, I should be spending more time with him or talking on the phone just so he doesn't drift to other girls.

Observations and suggestions highly encouraged. Thanks!

[Libby]

Your boyfriend actually said, "Spend more time with me or I'm going to get attention from other girls?"

Honey, that's emotional blackmail. Why be in a relationship with a guy who would say something so awful to you? My husband and I had to do the LDR thing twice, and he NEVER said anything even remotely close to that. He was devoted 100%, even during the time we went for 3 months without seeing each other.

Frankly, I think your relationship needs to end.