Should I send my brother a birthday card?

[SupernaturalGirl]

My half brother is turning 14 years old this month. I only met him last year as I only met our dad too. My dad is away at the moment. I don't know where to. He isn't really talking to me. He and his wife are divorcing that might be why. Anyway, his wife is an evil bitch. She told my brother not to talk to me and deleted me on facebook. The wife said to me that you need more than blood to be a sibling which is absolute bullshit. I want to send my brother a card but I don't know, should I?

[Tina]

Good for you for keeping an open mind! Do it - you have nothing to lose and a brother to gain.

[Katie]

Do it! I didn't speak to my brother for like 7 months once and now we're as close as ever! <3

[Denise]

Send a card.If it gets torn up or thrown out it doesn't matter you will have made that effort and you will feel better. His Mum won't always be able to call the shots. When you and your brother are grown up you will both be free to contact each other.

[Cecilia L]

Send your brother a birthday card and put some money in the card he will be happy

[Suzianne]

Yes. He probably needs to know someone cares. Life cannot be easy for him with all that drama.