Is There anyway to locate my kids in north carolina without having to friggin pay a WebSite?

[renes_harley_man]

[A M]

I'm not sure why you lost contact with your kids. If you haven't been in touch with them, maybe there is a reason that you can't find them?

[samira]

Have you called a private investigator? You would have to pay them but they have access to many different websites and information and would be looking in more than one place. Do you have their SS #'s? If you did-the PI could find them for sure. Have you called around to other relatives, friends, and done searches on yellowbook.com?
good luck!!

[Brianna]

Have you tried white pages.com to look for them? Other than that, there are some cheaper sites that don't charge too much, like 5 dollars. All yo'd have to do is locate one kid and i'm certain they know about the other one, if they'll talk to you.

You can also try to locate old friends of theirs and ask other relatives if they know where they are.

If you have been out of the picture for a long time, going with another relative might be easier. Tell the relative why you are getting in touch and then ask them to have your kids call you, leaving your information. Leave them your email as it might be easier on them to email for the first time than to talk on the phone. And if you've been out of the picture for a long time, be prepared for anger on their part.

You can also try looking for first and last name under search in face book and myspace. Facebook.com or myspace.com. If you know where they went to school you can try to go through classmates.com and do a search for that school and see if they have signed up for the classmates gold package to get emails and such.

Good luck.

[Madwealth875]

How and why did you lose contact with them in the first place? I don't really want to help out a potential predator or kidnapper. Sorry