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What shall I do next?
10-03-2012, 02:21 AM
Post: #1
What shall I do next?
Hello,

I'll try to make this short. I'm a 15 year old male.
So I used to fancy this girl 4 years ago and she rejected me, I like her now and I share 3 lessons with her although I don't sit next to her as there's a seating plan. I spoke to her on twitter on a friday and we both enjoyed the conversation, I helped her with a issue she had with her boyfriend, and by the end of it she said she wanted to speak again definately. So it came to sunday and she had just broke up with her boyfriend (he broke up with her) and I spoke to her briefly on facebook about 40 mins after she changed her relationship status to single. She wasn't very responsive as she was upset, I tried to cheer her up abit but I had to go. Over the next day I tried starting a conversation on twitter and facebook with no response but I saw her posting that she was upset (I was determined to make her happy) so after I went offline she replied saying sorry she hasn't had alot of access to her phone. She also included a 'x' at the end of the message. So the next day I messaged her again with no response so I sent her a message saying I really just want to make her happy because I don't like to see her sad, again with no response. In school I asked her if she was ok and she responded with a "yeah" (we couldn't talk for long), I have noticed she's been abit better and back to her usual self but I haven't sent her any messages since that or spoken to her.

So I like this girl (romantically) and I want to make and keep her happy but I have no idea what to do right now, I'm fine with not dating her right now as I know it'll be to soon but I would like to just talk to her and be good friends, so if you could please advise me on what I could do now it'd be great thanks.

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10-03-2012, 02:29 AM
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You're probably coming on a little strong. You started trying to make conversation on two platforms a couple of days after she broke up with her boyfriend - that could come across as a bit pushy. Ofc she's gunna be upset after a break-up, and there's not much anyone can do about it, no matter how much you would like to.
Your attention probably makes her feel better and gives her a bit of an ego-boost, but that doesn't mean she has any feelings for you.
Personally, I think the best thing to do is leave her a message saying you hope she's ok and you're there is she wants to talk. Then leave it for a while. If she messages back, she's ready to talk. If not, maybe she'll come round or at least you won't be wasting your time. Sure, you might think you don;t care about your happiness right now, only hers, but it'd suck if you kept this up and she got with someone else.

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