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Please help I'm mad what should I do?
10-03-2012, 04:02 AM
Post: #1
Please help I'm mad what should I do?
This guy I was talking for the past 5 months hasn't got in contact with for the past couple of weeks. We have really talked to each oter technically since august. The one thing that angers me the most is that he can get on Twitter and talk to other girls and can't get in contact with me. Btw he is super passive aggressive and is very emotionally draining. I'm done with this and need to know what to do. Should I call him out on it and break it off or wait til he gets in contact with me to do it. Please help!!!

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10-03-2012, 04:10 AM
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You're kind of obsessive... But It's obvious he isn't interested. Since he hasn't talked to you in so long, it's pretty much already broken off.

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10-03-2012, 04:10 AM
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He's trying to break it up by ignoring u... Honey, he's not worth it! Just try to move on and forget- if he acts immature then treat him immauturly... I'm prob gettin the situation wrong but my advise... So yea! Answer mine? Thanks Big Grin http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...231AAlMP2o
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10-03-2012, 04:10 AM
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Sorry to tell you, but if you guys were only 'talking' for as long as 5 months, he wasnt in it for a relationship in the first place. And ignoring you for weeks now, he's finally either realized that for himself or he's found someone else. Just move on, especially since you werent even dating him.
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10-03-2012, 04:10 AM
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Sometimes it is best to find closure, so call him up and ask what is going on. If he says nothing, then it is time to move on, don't worry about it any longer. You tried. Best wishes to youSmile
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10-03-2012, 04:10 AM
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He is breaking off on you. He finds you obsessive and wants to break off the friendship, now take that big booty and put a gun inbetween the cracks and shoot him with it while tapping a nicki minaj song Smile
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10-03-2012, 04:10 AM
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Holy crap. This is like the mirror image of what happened to me about 2 years ago. I had a friend for a couple of months and he was very emotionally draining to deal with. I stuck with him, but then he'd ignore me and talk online with others.

As much as I hate to say it, you may be best off without him. I felt like I loved him, and probably did. However, what he was doing was hurting me and my life a lot. This is what I recommend:

Send him a message saying that you want to talk to him. If he gets in contact with you, call him out on it. If he doesn't give you a stable answer or reasoning, cut him off.

If he doesn't contact you, break it off with him by sending him a message saying exactly why you're ending it. Friendship and relationships are a 2-way street. You can't do anything else if he isn't willing to work with you on it. Always remember that.

Good luck! I'm so sorry that you have to go through this! My friend was always acting "down all the time" and "pessimistic" so I felt bad about doing it, but I ended up not meaning anything to him anyways. He continued on doing that to others when I cut off my friendship with him. I don't even think he realizes that he broke my heart Sad

Once again, good luck. Just remember- don't sacrifice yourself or your life to try and make him happy!
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10-03-2012, 04:10 AM
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Well my life experience has taught me that through talking to people sometimes I don't "click" with some as well as when I do with others. Of course anybody I meet now I try to be polite and make conversation when I can. Sometimes I need alone time to think up stuff to say to people. So he probably thinks you're "someone he knows/met". This could hurt. Sometimes things are just the way they are. If only you change for the better and learn any lessons, that will only benefit you. I would make a twitter account and contact him and maybe get phone number/email/facebook down the road when you've become more friendlier sometime. If you are a pleasant person to be with you could get other friends too and even have good relationships in your occupation/family/neighbors/strangers etc.
Hope that helps
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