I don't know my question, but I need answers and advice? Help me please...?

[Madam Unique]

Hi,
Thanks in advance. Any ways I was with my ex for 14 months a perfect relationship, no arguments and we was both happy until he dumped me out the blue. I later worked out it was because his mum didn't like my size (overweight). He dumped me in April and in May I found out I was pregnant with his child. I tried to get in contact with him as he blocked me out and I went via his best mate who he was with at the time. In that moment I told him both him and his best mate blocked me out. I felt alone and neglected with this baby inside me. I didn't know what to do so I didn't tell anybody I was pregnant beside my good friend. Then early June I miscarried, my good friend reckons its because of the stress and heartbreak my ex caused. But then in early July my ex got in contact and we started talking on the 3rd and he said he misses me. So we arranged to meet up, I told him everything about the miscarriage while crying my eyes out explaining how alone I felt when he shut me out and then we spoke of the breakup. By the end of the day, he pulled me close.. kissed me and said he missed me while regretting everything. But then two days later he blocked me out again and once again left my heart broken. Then I noticed he was stalking my facebook and twitter so I blocked him on facebook so he doesn't know my life and then blocked him on twitter but he still manages to see me tweets somehow. Then in the start of august he tweeted me, so I checked his tweet time line and say status saying #LYT and I asked a mutual friend to find out what this mean. Later I found out it means "Love you Taylor" of who is a girl he's met of http://www.Habbo.com who's 15 (he's 17 and I'm 18). Then he randomly started messaging me again via blackberry messenger PIN. Saying he was up in Scotland (where she is from) and they went on a date of what was the first time they met as-well and the night ended in a kiss. That left a dagger in my heart. So now I hardly message him until recently I've had enough of his games and other lad's asking me out (I'm not ready to move on as I'm so in love with my ex) so me and my friend's cousin agreed to fake date until we both move on. Just on twitter and Facebook. Somehow the information of me being with somebody got to my ex and he sent me messages that included these lines "Beside's, it doesn't matter now any-ways you got your new lad" and "It doesn't matter at all, obviously things have changed, time has gone on, emotions are different.. Just a shame how things happened". I showed the messages to my good friend and she's just shocked at his mind games as she's seen every single message (from him to me and me to him) and she said he's the one who's changed and just wants to make me feel bad.

I honestly don't no my question here, but I need answer's and advice. I'm breaking inside its mad. Help me?

[Rozen Maiden]

So you're pregnant with him? Sent him to jail if his not gonna take responsibility.

Oh,and Habbo.com are for losers with no social life,I would get over it if he plays that children game with pedophiles and lame people.

But really..you could do better.

[Jessica]

Sounds like he's a real jerk. Something similar happened to me with an ex and I couldn't move on for a while. Though he was very mean and treated me like crap, I went through a bad phase after we broke up and it was just awful, but then I started to realize I was so much better than him and he truly didn't deserve me. This guy does not sound like he deserves you. You seem like such a nice girl who deserves such a good guy but I am so sorry for you hurting, it's truly terrible. He is playing games with you. Just forget him, try and ignore him and everything he does, don't answer his calls. Clearly he is going for those younger girls, try to date other people. My next real boyfriend after my ex is now my fiance and we have a small child, I couldn't be any happier. See, there is better, way better than him just waiting for you. And everything will definitely fall into place within time. Whether or not you are overweight, you are beautiful, you need to believe it. Meet other people, keep yourself occupied and soon rather than later you will learn to let go. And let go of this guy, who truly does not want you, he just wants to toy with you because he knows how you feel about him and he knows that he can BECAUSE of he way you feel. But don't let him. And do not let it bring you down any longer. Good luck to you.