what should i do if my girlfriend leaves me for another guy?

[Kris Block]

hey im coming out of a relationship a(emotionally abusive) relationship she would always hurt me and leave me then come back to me as if things were okay then do it all over again and what gets at me is the she would post things on twitter saying that i was never that good to her when all i did was love her , never heated i was committed to her the whole relationship all i would do is treat her like she was my queen and all i got in return was heartbreak and sarrow and ,so basically one day we were at school and i walked her to her class and i asked her what was up with her liking another guy (posted on twitter saying she like another guy) and she said she did and i asked her is he more important than our relationship a year over a week of knowing the kid and she said he was that important and he doesnt even know she likes him and she broke it off with me just for a kid that she barely knows, soo now its been a fe days after shes told me and its killing me and i dont know what to do and we were at school and she still trys to talk to me as if nothing ever happend and asks me why im not acting myself latley etc soo now she asks me on twitter "i want to know how you really feel" and that "im trying to be nice about this but you keep pushing me away " and i tell her how i feel and she says "you need to move on " like she doesnt even care , all i can do is think of her with some other dude kissing and hugging , all the things i used to do and all i can do is break down and cry , and aslo she talks to me on twitter and flirts with me and then trys to be just "friends" giving me mixed signals ,all i want is my baby back thats all i ask for like its hard just giving up a relationship were we were soo deep i let her meet my family i would cook dinner for her every night anything she wanted i would do it for her ,now all i do is find myself listen to sad rnb music and think of her and her new man and i come to find out the man she likes is another kid with the same name as me , i remember how soo many other girls would try to get with me and i would tell them no cuz i have someone i trueley love and i wouldt do anything to hurt her , like i dont get how you can hurt the ppl you "love" and also its like she trys to rub it in my face that we arnt together anymore and she trys to tell me to hook up with her frineds like im not that kinda dude i dont get down like that , but it hurts me cuz she wants me to be with other girls okay im 16 and i do know what love is and these arnt just feelings these are feeling that are real, you may say im to young for love but what ii feel is real i can go on forevr about my situtation but im gunna end it i just wanna know how i can get her back or some help would be apprecated ,sincerley Kris aka Young Lover Boy

[?]

Sorry to hear that. But really you should just cut all contact off from her. That is the only way. You are only hurting yourself more by dragging it out. Its obvious she didnt love you. Shes just a skank.

[Reeka01]

I'm not trying to bash on your ex but she seems like a real b*tch... ditch her... Grow up get out there... be done with her. She obviously has, and when she calls you to get back with her after her new beau breaks her heart don't give into it. Move on and cheer up buck-o you are young and there are plenty of great girls out their who would love to be spoiled by a great guy.

[Julia]

Snap outta it. she doesnt like you. She's been tossing you arpund like a plaything. You say you love her when your not getting any feed back. Get a new girl, one that'll treat you better than that ........ i shouldn't say.

[Angel A.A.]

Recognize when people disrespect you and take steps to stop it. A person with self respect doesn't allow others to treat them badly, and would rather not associate with someone who is disrespectful. This might seem obvious, but there are many times when we accept being treated badly (in both big and small ways) because we believe the person doesn't know any better, or because we're (not willing to let that person go), or because we're too down on ourselves to believe we deserve better. When someone doesn't give you basic respect, you need to be able to say, in one way or another, "You just disrespected me and that's not acceptable to me. If you don't respect me, I won't spend time with you anymore." Can you say that, and mean it? Can you turn your back on someone who's clearly shown that they don't respect you? Once you do, you'll feel your sense of self-respect go up.

[T]

I didnt need to read past the first couple of lines to know that she is playing with you. When you really and truly love someone you do not take to twitter and say you were never good enough or things even remotely close to that. Yeah you may vent about the situation, but never anything about how bad the relationship is. I think you should prepare yourself for her to leave if you let her and by "if you let her" I mean you should make the wise decision to leave first. Doesnt make since to wait around for the unevitable. At least you can say you left her...not she left you looking like a dumb ass. I dont think she deserves anymore of you and I promise you, it hurts right now..but it will get better. She will realize what she had and what she lost when another guy comes along and treats her like crap. You are too young to be abused like this. Baby, youve got your whole life ahead of you. Move on, date around, be happy with someone else. You will be happy you made the decision to leave her, because in the end it will be her trying to get back with you and I will bet my whole paycheck on that.

[Potterhead]

Dude, you said you were in an emotionally abusive relationship. then you said you love her.
Where the fu*k has your self respect gone? She dumped you, get the fu*k over it! She's a bit*h and she loves playing, any douche bag can see that. And you're fucki*g 16! And trust me bro, that was NOT love. And why the f*ck would you wanna get her back? So that she can insult you and publicly humiliate you again? Way to go brother! You know what, MOVE ON. Clearly the skank doesn't deserve you. I mean, don't be so blind. Go out with girls, have some fun, ENJOY LIFE! You're so young, how can you act like a fuck*ng 30 year old divorced person?! And you know what this is, it's self pity. Nobody's going to respect you until you start respecting yourself. And dude, she never loved you. It cannot be more obvious than this. And you know what, the next time she asks you to be just friends, just tell her what a bit*h she was to you and cut all contact with her. I mean, get over it, and get your self respect back, like a bloody man.
All the best.