Read please 10 points!!?

[James]

So theres this girl that I use to be in a class in highschool with and sat next to her and always talked to her and I just recently posted happy birthday i miss you on her facebook and she said i miss you too and i asked her to hang out soon and she said yes and i tweeted her and asked her if she was free in the next couple of days and she asked if sunday (yesterday) was ok and i said yes so i texted her and she said she was on her way home but never got anything back from her the rest of the night so i texted her today and asked if she was free in the next couple of days and got no reply so idk if i should keep trying or what need some advice? I haavent texted her or tweeted her for a couple days so what should i do and say? and the fact that she texted me saying she was coming home but if she didnt really wanna hang out would she of not texted me should i tweet her and say sorry i dont wanna be annoying but just wondering if your free ? and today i tweeted her and said i didnt wanna be annoying but since w didnt do anything maybe something this week and it got favortied and i tweeted back and asked if she was busy and got nothing back? i dont know if i should just maybe text her and say this is my last time im asking you if you wanna you let me know or something like that to show that im done caring and trying to make plans i need some advice i dont wanna really give up but i dont know what to do. today i texted her at 2 to see if she wanted to do something and didnt get a text back till 630 saying Whats up?! then i texted her and said just got home and got nothing back? why would she take 4 hours to text back and then not text back again? and like when we were in class one time she grabbed my arm to go over and help her with some questions and idk its really confusing i sorta liked her in class and it just confuses me that the day after i said that on facebook she follows me on twitter but i dont know what to do i dont really wanna let it go but i dont wanna be annoying i did tweet her saying i dont wanna be annoying but since the plans didnt work maybe something else and it got favorited so i mean i dont know what to do its really confusing i kinda wanted to tell her that ive always thought that she was super pretty but that would be really creepy i think idk need some advice please i would tell her that ive always thought she was super pretty and all this but that would be creepy i dont wanna just stop because she wouldnt favorite my stuff or she wouldnt of texted back today? was her first reaction on facebook what she really wanted to do by saying she missed me? and yesterday i tweeted about a haircut and she said she can give me one at her place she works at or at her house??? and she tweeted me i didnt ask her? what does that mean that she tweeted me about the haircut if she really didnt wanna hang out she wouldnt of said that would she?

[Gillian]

Dude tooooo long!

[Cynthia]

First things first, chill out. Girls hate when guys get clingy, especially if it still early in the relationship. Don't text her saying "this is the last time I'm going to ask" because that seems really aggressive in a bad way. If I were you I would play it cool. Respond to her if she texts you, say you think shes pretty, but don't say you've always thought that (at least not yet, if things got more serious then it wouldn't be weird) and if she keeps blowing you off, then just move on and don't obsess. Hope this helped, and I hope things work out for the best

[Elliott]

umm seeing as i have done this exact thing (minus the tweeting part) before. let it slide. forget it. dont get angry bout it. dont come across as needy and stuff. dont overthink how long it takes someone to reply, they might have other reasons other than not wanting to hang out. there r so many possibilities and very few of them involve her hating ur guts and trying to spite u with every fiber of her being and ruining ur life. so forget it and move on. probly not what u wanted to hear

also, not every favorite/like/retweet etc has thirty billion hidden messages. not every unanswered/commented/read post/tweet/text etc means they hate u. do not read into them too much or u will drive urself absolutely insane

[MV]

ok woah! take a deep breath!! First of all might want to give you a chance but the moment you sound desperate it's over for you!!

I am a girl and if a guy sends me text of tweets or fb me stuff like that I would get annoyed!!

There is nothing a girl likes more than a guy that is a man and makes her feel like a girl!! Whoo her and get your flirt on the rest will come. Just don't please don't send her stuff like " I don't wanna sound annoying . . . " or if she didn't reply ask her if you are still on for today. No just let it go and start over from the beginning flirting, coz that whole attempt didn't work.

Don't be to forward when flirting. Just give her suddle compliments here and there. And just talk to her for a bit. Your rushing things. Get to know her first over fb or text or whatever give it a month and then ask her to meet for coffee somewhere chilled with no preasure added.

And nothing about your feelings for her, just flirting here and there once again. After that if you feel that she likes you a bit more then you can ask her on a date. Oh and when you meet her for coffee you must be the guy that she always wanted. I don't know how to explain, she must be googely for you. And in a way give her hints that this is not a date and you don't just take any girl on a date

Girls are like that. If you tell them something that you think about them that is a teeny tiny bit negative they will want to prove you wrong. If you tell her that this is not a date and you don't take just any girl on a date,, she would want to go on a date with you and there you go, the ship has started sailing.

Go and download The Pick up Artist. He has a reality show and a book or two. He wrote it for guys who struggle with girls. And I promise you I am a girl and all that stuff that he says about girls and picking up girls is sooo true and it would work on me!!