How can i stop being the crazy ex gf?

[Nicole H]

Blocked from his fb/twitter and it drives me crazy not knowing what is going on in his life. No one wants to date me because I had a child from him. I'm stuck on him because I haven't dated anyone since him and he was my first serious relationship. It's been years, I should be over this. What can I do? I have read all the articles online and nothing seems to work.
I'm 25 and going to school

[Kung Fu Panda]

You my dear are one of lifes true joys.. Your passion burns for this man.. U must have him The more he doesnt want you the more you want him.. But read my words.. Trust me the prize is not as thrilling as the chase.. U would eventually get bored of him.. There are so many other adventures just waiting for you. The thrill of the hunt is still alive and you are the forest maiden. Now go forth and find yourself a new mate.. Let the journey begin

[candice]

It sucks. I know. You are wrong about no one wanting to date you. Why? Just because you have a child? Please...
What don't you like about yourself ? It is your hair? Face? Body? Then...change your hair color. Change your makeup and loose weight/gain weight.
Spend time with your child, he/she deserves YOU!
Then after you worked on yourself for a while, your ex will notice. Other men will notice too. Don't care about him anymore. I know it sucks. I am going through something similar. My ex of a year told me one day he wants to be single, then de-friended me and blocked me on fb then i realized he is dating a new girl...and shockingly he always penalized me on my weight; and now that i have lost close to 30 pounds, he is so fucking jealous. And trust me it hurts. But i have seen his gf, and guess what sweety, she is fatter than i ever been!!! SO that means he is hiding her from ME. The reason he blocked you (if you were not a psycho of course) would be to keep sane so that he could do whatever the fuck he wants to do. play around, fuck whoever and do whatever without you knowing; so maybe just MAYBE one day when he comes back crawling to you you won't criticize him for going out with this girl or that girl. It may be he is dating someone you know or will get really angry if you find out. OR not!
Maybe he blocked you just because he wants nothing to do with you. (Sorry gotta tell you all the options)
Maybe he still has feelings and is too coward to tell you. Maybe other things....
Who cares?
Try online dating.
Find a job, go learn something new. Take a vacation...
Do whatever you can to get out of the house.
I don't know how old you are...how old are you? Do you have a career? where do you live?

[Masterslave162]

If you're not getting or keeping dates then being so "stuck on him" may be a larger issue in the matter then having a kid is. If you're not invested enough in wanting to focus on and know another individual and clearly still obsessing over this other guy, they aren't going to stick around.

It's been said that it can take as long to get "over" someone as the amount of time you had the relationship. But obsessing over him will not help anything and reading articles can only offer pointers, not cures.

Focus on your child and your own little family and making a happy life for yourselves, then maybe a better guy will turn up when you aren't even looking for him, someone who may went to be part of that happy life he sees.

Sometimes we have to learn to be happy on our own before we're capable of having someone else be a part of it.