does my boyfriend hate me or not?

[Kellie]

He had a minor procedure today and was given laughing gas. I asked him if I could come visit him but he wants to sleep. He said not visit until Friday and he won't reply to my texts but can dm me on twitter. Should I be concern?
He had surgery on the roof of his mouth.

[Charlotte]

don't be concerned he probably just doesn't want you to see him in a state. he told you he wants to sleep, so that is probably why he isn't replying. leave him be and see if he replies tomorrow. he's told you that you can visit friday so he obviously wants to see you but when he is slightly better

[Rosetta]

Ofcourse he dose not hate you! He's just had an operation, he just needs some space I'm sure he's just tired - maybe he doesnt have a charger for his phone in the hospital?

[Tdouble]

Most likely. When a boy is in a high or low point he thrives off of attention, affection, anything. To say he isn't going to reply to your messages or don't see him means someone is doing it for him. I could understand the whole dont come see me, maybe he is embarresed or something but no texts? He's busy and doesn't want to be interupted. this is just my personal opinion and I hope I am wrong for your sake but it shouldn't hurt to look into it.

[RoseMarie]

Being purely honest you sound paranoid, and should be asking yourself why you are questioning this. The guy has just had a minor procedure, yes he will feel like he just wants to sleep and will not want any visitors for a couple of days. What you need to ask yourself if why are you so dependent on him needing you, because at the moment your own insecurities are blinding you to his very reasonable needs! It should be about you doing what he needs from you and you being relaxed and ok with that, and yet you are making it all about what YOU need, because YOU need him to want you there so as you feel wanted! It is insecurities like this that generally cause relationships to break down because of the unfair and unreasonable pressure it puts upon the other person in the relationship. Plus he will not be allowed to have his phone on in the hospital because of the way it effects the equipment!

[stanley]

Hi Kellie, well if he was texting you up until he had this minor procedure, I shouldn'nt be over concerned, unless he fell in love with one of the nurses. That was just one of my stupid jokes. So he should have come out of hospital, thinking the same of you as he did when he went in. And minor procedure or not, he will spend a lot of time in bed in the next day or two. And he seems to think that this is a good enough reason not to text you. But he will chat on Twitter. So your answers to questions will be answered when you go on Twitter. Not as cosily as it could be to change niceties, but if that's the way he wants it, then I should go with it for a day or two. However you must make sure that it doesn't last any longer than that. Because you can't say the things on Twitter that you can with a text. So give him a day or two, and then try him with text again.
I wish you happiness