SERIOUSLY PLEASE HELP ME? PLEASE? Have I done something wrong here?

[Lebany]

PLEASE PLEASE Please tell me, have I done something wrong by messaging him? I don't want to be in the category of homewreckers, sl-t, etc

He is a celebrity that i follow on Twitter for a few years now. Met him on Twitter but he didn't have a big following at that time. He's gained popularity since. When I met him he would flirt with me and reply to my messages. Then as he became more popular, he grew distant and hardly ever replied. I wasn't surprised and I also got too busy to message so I left. He was a lot more active when I messaged him, but when I took a break, his activity also dropped. When I came back, he became more active again. He is married to a woman whom he got pregnant with before marriage.

I said that he is vain and he took offence and blocked me. I made another account and after a few weeks, he blocked me again. Finally, I stopped messaging him and he started sending all of these depressed sad messages about him being lonely and updating his status quoting songs like Elvis's are you lonesome tonight do you miss me tonight, etc. I finally wrote to him and asked if he was okay and said that he was really cruel to block me like that. He replied back and said that he appreciated the love and that he blocked me because he couldn't read the other messages that were being sent to him. He never replies and if he does, he does it rarely. I think this was his way of apologizing...the same day after I messaged him, he started sending cheerful updates again.

Is he emotionally cheating? have I done something wrong here? Even when he's on vacations he keeps updating his twitter and his friends say that he constantly looks at his twitter. I have seen that when I message him, he tweets thereafter or close to when I message.

[Shun]

You're not cheating. Here's a general rule.
If you kiss him, you're cheating.
Otherwise, it's perfectly legitimate.

[YesiDidJustSayThat]

Yes, you did something wrong. He did something wrong. He shouldn't message you 'cause he's married; you shouldn't message him for the same reasons. Yes, emotional cheating. You sound desperate and obsessed; I'm not surprised he blocked you. Take the hint and leave him alone. Move on with your life. This guy is playing games with you and you're just following along with it. He's a celeb. He has more important, egotistical things to deal with now.

[Lovely]

Leave this guy alone and for goodness sake - quit posting this! I saw this same question in POLITICS!

[Magpie]

He is a married man that you have romantic feelings for. You need to stay away as nothing good can come from it to him and your own self.

[paralegal]

Yes its called an affair of the heart and that is a form of cheating. People like to draw a clear line of physical contact only as cheating but that is not true...cheating comes in many many many shades of gray