Should I tell him I like him? and if so, How do I bring it up?

[Margie Walker]

Basically, I have a crush on my guy friend and have liked him for a while now. Most people say that he likes me but, it's kind of hard to believe because he's REALLY flirty. I've tried to ask him who he liked before but he told me that the question made him feel uncomfortable so I stopped asking. I'm just really confused and don't even know if I should even tell him. So the real question is "Should I tell him I like him?" and if so "How do I bring it up?" without it being awkward and random
When I said he was REALLY flirty i meant that he flirts with a lot of girls but people hove told me that he gives me the "Special Treatment"
When I said he was REALLY flirty i meant that he flirts with a lot of girls but people hove told me that he gives me the "Special Treatment"

[Tom]

I think only you can know the answer. If you really know that he hvae crush for you go for it and ask him, what you have to loose ? But you should listen what he will say not what other people think. Many girls afraud that guy will change after he is in relationship. So watch him carefully and decide whenever he is worth being your Mr.Right or not. Trust is the most important thing. If you cant trust him then relationship wont last long.

[Dre Baker]

I've had a crush on this one girl before, and never told her.

she was a friend as well. Been going to school with her since 3rd grade and graduated with her.

She is now getting married ... and if I could go back I would tell her how I felt.

I know the marriage thing Is a bit drastic for your situation but I hope this story still speaks to you.

you seriously don't want to ask yourself the question of "what if I told him how I feel?"

[minikating]

Just tell him how you really feel. I think it's not that bad. If you think your friends are just joking around about that "he liking you" then you do the move first. Sometimes you just gotta have to tell what you really feel than being to late when he's already with someone else. What I think about him too, about being uncomfortable when he is asked about who he liked, is really uncomfortable for guys. Just start an easy conversation about friends and his friends or whatever until you end up asking him "did you know that I like you?" When he answers back, REALLY? FOR REAL? NO. Just reply: Yes, we'll I just like you becuase you're a good friend, fun to be with, so random in stuff (if he is) but that's nothing, I'm just sharing my thoughts and feelings... so.. (you can start another convo by this time) Directly diverse the conversation because you'll know when he is listening to you as by evidence he'll go back and ask about what you mean about you liking him. Good luck and God Bless girl!

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