Relationship Advice.....?

[Rosssieeee]

Hi!
I am not married nor divorce but I infer people in this category will make better answers.

My boyfriend and I are 17 years old and we have been in a relationship for 5months. We have each others passwords because we both believe we have dont have anything to hide.
My boyfriend moved November 2011 to my current town. He has family where I live and decided to move for better opportunities (education/sports).
I recently ( not even 3 hours ago) read his DM's on Twitter from a girl that went to school with from his old town/state and how she misses him and he is coming home Christmas break and he was going to surprise her and she wants him to be her christmas present and how it will be the best christmas she ever had and all that crap!! Also how for New Years i how they would bring in the new year like old times. How should I go about approaching him about this?

I have his password for God-sake, he is my first boyfriend. Are boys really that simple minded?

[Coach Simon]

At seventeen, you are still going through your adolescence, which involves emotional change as well as physical. You probably think you know yourselves and each other, but how can you? Try to lighten up a little, because really, teenage boys don't always want to be tied to a relationship for ever! In addition, if you want his respect, you'll need to develop some emotional self sufficiency, which means not depend on another person for your happiness. The excitement and thrill of being in love with its desires, passions and intense emotions seldom last for very long; they can develop into something much stronger and deeper, but this seldom happens when we are teenagers for the above reasons.

By the way, sex might be fun, and so may drink and drugs be, but the consequences can be disastrous outside of a serious, mature, well established and loving relationship - involving a strong friendship - let alone safety. Read the questions here; so very many are about deeply unhappy people who had sex - and quite often children - when in their teens, and are completely miserable as a result. The same applies to people who go on t.v. shows such as Maury, Jeremy Kyle, etc. The main reason is that sex is very intimate and emotionally bonding (especially when frequent or regular), and when the friendship, mutual values and ambitions, etc. are not in place, emotional confusion and misery ensue.

Good Luck! And remember, that if you go looking for muck, you'll probably find it.

[Mightyalarm653]

I would approach him at a good time - sooner rather than later and when your both in a good mood, and talk about it. If you don't, it will most likely lead to an argument and you'll both feel defensive. That might happen anyway.
Its cool u guys obviously want to have trust and openness in your relationship. However exchanging passwords doesn't guarantee you can trust your partner - its got to come from the heart. After all, we cant be with our partners 24/7. You both sound like you are open and level headed and good on you both - whatever age you are, and however long you have been together, communication is the key to a happy relationship. And sometimes its not an easy road.