Boyfriend dumbed me out of nowhere :(?

[Dancer4life]

I've been dating this guy for a year. everything was going fine, till i woke up one morning to find that he has blocked me on facebook. so i made a new facebook to see what was wrong, and he called me names and said i was a bad person. i am almost literally the nicest person on earth and people are always mistreating me. this guy was my bestfriend and he was the last person i thought would do this to me. we talked about marriage and everything. he told me he was in love with me first.

after a few weeks he called me like everything was okay saying "i bet you didnt think i was ever gunna call huh?" saying he was going to come visit me. then i messaged him venting about the stress i was going through, then he started calling me a bad person again and i told him to not disrespect me like that anymore. then he blocked me again. then a week later he unblocked me and followed me on twitter but hasnt spoken to me. i literally begged him to not leave when he was leaving me.

Almost every person i didnt think would leave me or thought loved me family or not has disrespected me, mistreated me, and left me as if i was nothing. I have gone into the worst depression of my life, and have been on the verge of commiting suicide many times. This guy was my 2nd bf ever and i'm 20. i did so much for him. i feel like a piece of shit.
Why did he do this to me?
i asked him why he was ddoing it to me, he made it seem like i was the bad person. i've slept in the car with this man, i've done so much for him.
he showed me more love than anybody has ever shown me which is why it hurts soooo bad.

[Nic]

u like guys with small penises?

[Peace and love]

honestly only he and his friends would know. he sounds like a jerk and a coward calling you names while he blocked you on facebook. you should be yelling and slapping him >=( i mean really mad

[Megan]

I have no idea why he done this to you, maybe you should ask why he is being such a jerk.
It hurts when someone crushes your heart but it's life, people change and will hurt you and those are the people who aren't worth it. If he can't grow up then you are better off moving on. Maybe you should vent your feelings to friends or family, it helps ease pain.
I'm sure you are a lovely person, you don't deserve to be treated like dirt if you have done nothing wrong, don't let him get away with it and if he runs back to you don't let him back in.
Good luck & take care.

[BebeGirl]

This is so bad! I'm sorry he did this to you honey The only way to actually know why he did this is to ask.him straut out. Other than that, I guess you will never know why he did such a thing. People judge others to quickly hun, so don't stress over it. I kmow t's hard to deal with him now and all the the crap he put you through but you don't need him. Also, if he is saying bad stuff about you on facebook, definently print or take a pic of the things he's pisting about you so you have proof. He could get in huge trouble for doing this. Depending on how old you are, take it to a councelor. Like guidence or someone you can trust. Hope I helped you and I do wish you the best of luck

[jannie]

Im sorry!! That is the toughest thing to go though. I can't tell you why he did it, but I know that you deserve to be treated well even though that means you treat yourself well until you find someone else who treats you as good as you treat yourself. Start by going to get a pedicure or go out shopping and buy a new shirt. Treat yourself. You deserve it!

[anon]

He's a jerk

[AppleButter]

You can't blame yourself for him being crazy, well you can, but you shouldn't! There are a lot of crazy people in the world, and you just avoided wasting anymore time with that one! Be glad, relieved! Imagine if you had married and had kids, Ikes! Don't be depressed, I know easier said than done. But trust me, you still have so much time in life to meet the right guy and when you do, it will be exponentially better than any other guy you've been with. So look forward to that day, have hope and be picky and careful at the same time!

[divastar918]

Do not waste your breath / thoughts on this jerk. I'm sure you are a sweet person. hug yourself, have fun with life and life will lead you to a wonderful person.

Ever hear of the song "God bless the broken road"? its an amazing song, listen. you'll understand.

good luck!!

[leena]

Girl, Chill, If he can live without you, you ca live without him too! There are many guys in the world who would treat you BETTER, WAY BETTER than that jerk Dont feel like that! Every girl is Perfect in her own way, You just need a guy who'd love you for who you are. Relax, And be Patient