How to handle never having a girlfriend and dealing with Asperger's Syndrome? Women are so shallow):?

[nickkk]

I am scared I am going to die alone. I am 23 going on 24 and I have tried numerous dating sites and social networking sites like meetme, Facebook, twitter, and plenty of fish. I feel its because I am a dark complexioned black man with afro centric features. Plus my aspergers syndrome makes me socially awkward and too shy. I feel that I am a living breathing human being with emotions and feelings. I deserve to receive love and love back in return. I currently have a good job with free dental, cheap medical insurance and saving a nice 401k. I have a car to be thankful for and a loving mother who supported me and been there for me thick and thin. I have a home to live in and food to eat. I am thankful to have these things but I am tired of being lonely. I mean I love myself and inspire of my flaws. Which is my Weight and afro features. I accept being overweight. I see guys overweight all the time with very attractive females. I see black men with lots of females too. I used to wish I was light skin with hazel eyes. But I accept that life his what it is. I feel life changes in time. I may get a friend in my thirties but I feel I won't ever be able to find a virgin like me anymore. The older I get the harder it is to find. If I lay with a non virgin her virtue will be long gone and older women have too much experience and will stereotype me because I don't have a large member between my legs)-:

[PEGGY S]

Try joining a support group for people your age with the same situation. You will have a better chance at romance with people that are experiencing the same as you, or that know someone that they care about that is experiencing it. They will understand you much better, and be more receptive to you.

It is unfortunate that all people can not understand every situation. People tend to fear what they can not understand. I am very sorry that you have not been able to connect romantically with someone that is willing to accept you as you are. By surrounding yourself with people that are more knowledgeable about Aspergers, you have a better chance of meeting that special person for you.