A girl rejected me and she is living life happily, what is next for me?

[Unkown]

Hello,

I was rejected by this girl. I made a big mistake of looking at her twitter page. She is living happily. What is next for me. I am trying to forget her, but I can't. This is so difficult.

What is next for me?
I want to something big so she will remember me..

[Xavier]

Work out , masturbate, listen to sh*tty rap music until you meet another girl

[ladeeda]

Dude, she just rejected you, its not like you spent the past 20 years together that ended with divorce.

You do know there is more to life than romance and sex right? Find a job, take a few classes, pick up a hobby. Its not the end of the world.

[Excessiveapple254]

There's nothing else to live for, you are caught with this predicament for all time.

[Haru]

You just have to move on. Unless you wanna continue chasing her. You can try, as long as it does not do any bad, get in her way and life or anything.

If not, move on! Forget about her. Yeah it's not easy, you can think of her and all but if you don't meet her overtime you're gonna just forget about her so just don't make any contact with her or so.

[Nic]

respect her decision and be a man,and with such display of courage you might still manage to win her someday,but for the mean time stay steady and be good ,goodluck.



lol if you need personal growth and improvement check the answer below me

[Barry]

Don't look at her Twitter page again.

REPROGRAMMING:
It's important to regularly monitor, and deal with a negative internal monologue (self talk), or mental process, such as disturbing thoughts, images, impulses, or emotions, by the process of (a): recognising it, and (b): challenging it immediately. Technique For Re-Programming Negative Thoughts: When you notice something negative, such as: "I can't do this/ am never going to get over this!" or: "Why am I always so useless/such a loser?" or even an image, emotion, or a memory; recognise that it is being generated from the negative part of your mind.

After identifying and labelling it, visualise a large, red, flashing, "STOP!" sign, and/or possibly a stern faced person wagging an index finger at you in a negative manner, then say to yourself as forcefully as you can, even aloud in a big voice, if alone: "I know this tactic: GO AWAY FOR A WHILE !!!" You may want to use either: "ruse", "ploy", "game", or "trick". In the case of an image, visualise a large "STOP" sign, or your preferred version.

Some people go so far as to keep a wide rubber band in their pocket, then put it around their wrist, when they catch themselves backsliding, stretch and release it, as a method of reprogramming their mind sooner, but I don't regard it as being strictly necessary. Remember to remove it, afterwards, if you use this method. Try replacing a negative thought with a positive affirmation of your choice, like: "I am a unique individual, with my own set of skills, and good points", or "I may not be perfect, but I'm doing the best I can, right now".

View my previous answer about breakups at http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ans...604AA4gJz1

[ForYourEyes]

Everyone gets rejected and there is plenty of fish in the sea so you just accept it and carry on living. There is a big recession in the world so what's next for all those families really struggling financially? Now that is the real problem.

[BlueCherry No.]

To get on with life and not watch hers because shes clearly not interested in yours.