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Help and read please!!?
11-27-2012, 06:37 AM
Post: #1
Help and read please!!?
So theres this girl that I use to be in a class in highschool with and sat next to her and always talked to her and I just recently posted happy birthday i miss you on her facebook and she said i miss you too and i asked her to hang out soon and she said yes and i tweeted her and asked her if she was free in the next couple of days and she asked if sunday (yesterday) was ok and i said yes so i texted her and she said she was on her way home but never got anything back from her the rest of the night so i texted her today and asked if she was free in the next couple of days and got no reply so idk if i should keep trying or what need some advice? I haavent texted her or tweeted her for a couple days so what should i do and say? and the fact that she texted me saying she was coming home but if she didnt really wanna hang out would she of not texted me should i tweet her and say sorry i dont wanna be annoying but just wondering if your free ? and today i tweeted her and said i didnt wanna be annoying but since w didnt do anything maybe something this week and it got favortied and i tweeted back and asked if she was busy and got nothing back? i dont know if i should just maybe text her and say this is my last time im asking you if you wanna you let me know or something like that to show that im done caring and trying to make plans i need some advice i dont wanna really give up but i dont know what to do. today i texted her at 2 to see if she wanted to do something and didnt get a text back till 630 saying Whats up?! then i texted her and said just got home and got nothing back? why would she take 4 hours to text back and then not text back again? and like when we were in class one time she grabbed my arm to go over and help her with some questions and idk its really confusing i sorta liked her in class and it just confuses me that the day after i said that on facebook she follows me on twitter but i dont know what to do i dont really wanna let it go but i dont wanna be annoying i did tweet her saying i dont wanna be annoying but since the plans didnt work maybe something else and it got favorited so i mean i dont know what to do its really confusing i kinda wanted to tell her that ive always thought that she was super pretty but that would be really creepy i think idk need some advice please i would tell her that ive always thought she was super pretty and all this but that would be creepy i dont wanna just stop because she wouldnt favorite my stuff or she wouldnt of texted back today? was her first reaction on facebook what she really wanted to do by saying she missed me? and yesterday i tweeted about a haircut and she said she can give me one at her place she works at or at her house??? and she tweeted me i didnt ask her? what does that mean that she tweeted me about the haircut if she really didnt wanna hang out she wouldnt of said that would she?

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11-27-2012, 06:45 AM
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Alright so first things first, you have to stop tweeting/texting/messaging her about the plans. From what you're telling us it seems like she's avoiding the question. I know you don't want to give up or let it go, but you should take a break from talking to her for a while. Let a few days go by, enjoy yourself, don't think about her too much. She may message you, if she does take a while to reply back, not like 5 minutes or anything, more like an hour. Also, if you're tweeting something that has nothing to do with her (for example: "Yay going to the mall") & she replies to that tweet, ignore it. If she doesn't say anything back or talk to you after the few days then send her maybe one message. I hope everything works out.

Good luck!

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11-27-2012, 06:45 AM
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ok bro, take it from a girl- GIRLS HATE WHEN U ARE THE GIRLFRIEND IN THE RELATIONSHIP. ok so like 1- saying things like "sorry i sound annnoying" and "you didnt reply what did i do wrong" that is a total girl thing, doing that makes u seem like a whimp and super whimpy. a little whimp is good but u sound like the girlfriend who cant let go right now. dont text her at all!!!!!!!!!! if she rreeeaalllyyy wants to go out, she will reply. trust me. dont make her feel bad about it and dont apologize if u do. just move on. but dont seem rude about moving on. u want to seem like the one that is calm and cool in the relationship because if u arnt, she feels like she has to be and she does NOT want that! so good for u for not texting everyday but plz dont turn into the guy thats says "what did i do wrong" "i must have made a mistake" blah blah blah dont be a girl!sorry if i sound mean right now, just i liked a guy for a little bit and he started acting like this, super unatractive i got rid of him fast and he regrets it but i dont for sure. and dont be so eager to go out, u have so much in ur live u should be focusing on right now. relationships are the least of ur worries. life ur life a little. just cause u like someone doesnt mean u have to act on the feelings. because trust me ur feelings change fast. not saying they will but especially at young ages (i mean like 20 and under around there) u still have so much u could do. but if u really like her, then yeah dont herrass the poor girl
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