i really like this guy but we cant be together its like forbidden love HELLP?

[faithfulappliance630]

so there is this guy. he and i were like best friends. i kinda had feelings for him but back then i was 11 and he was 14 and now i am 13 and he is 16. back then we werent allowed to have twitter and we just made it. i mean i wasnt allowed but he was. so we just talked and we were so close that when we were done talking it was like "i love you" and i love u too" so we got caught at school. then he and i still had that connection but i was 11 and in 5th grade and his 14 and in 8th grade. so he looked at me. all that time i felt like he didn't wanna stay away from me and instead was like forced or like threathend and well his friends didnt really like me well mostly the girls cuz he and i were so close so he and i were like seprated once again. i found myself still having feelings for him but i dont know what to do if my parents see me with him i am gonna be dead


HELLPPP PLEASE

[Chris]

Good lord. Go back to playing barbies please

[will m]

You're too young for him. You'll get over it sooner than you think.

[DreamDiva]

Sorry but parents approval is a deal breaker

P.S.
so is the age

[Michael]

Take a breath.

You and he can date, but it will need to be in the future. When he is 18, you will still be underage. When you are 18, he will be 21 and it is a possibility.

So, there you have it. Go to school dances, engage in school clubs and activities and get really good grades for college

[jollyteam293]

I think you guys should wait till you're 18 so there will be nothing standing in your way, if its love it can wait believe me it can, Keep the lines of communication open between the two of you coz there's no reason to not talk to each other completely, think of it as the once upon a time before your happily ever after.

[Gracie<3]

Umm yeah I agree you're too young. Im 13 in eighth grade, and even I can tell this isn't going to work out. You're too young for "love". Some of my friends thing they are "in love" and just no. Go hang out with some friends and get over him. I also think if you have to hide him from your parents its probably not a good idea anyways. So yeahh good luck!

[Graal]

What 8th grader would be interested in a 5th grader, still in elementary school? Either you're quite mature, or he's just veryvery childish. Looks like you should get over it. Stick with kids your own age please. If he likes you now, he's obviously either still weird and immature, or he just wants to get in your pants. #itsthetruth #sorrynotsorry

[J.]

Oh sweetie. The reason you still have feelings is the same reason Romeo and Juliet were so drawn to one another. It's called "forbidden love" And it's the hardest kind to get over. But you need to wait until you are 16 unless you want to see this guy on the sex offender registry for the rest of his life. Going out with an older guy at this point in your life is not a great idea, which is why your parents don't want you to. Trust me, they don't want you to miss out on true love, that's what most parents want for their daughters - someday! What they want to prevent is their little girl being used for sex and having her heart broken...which is typically what happens when a young girl dates an older guy 99.999% of the time. I am sure you think he is different, that's part of the beauty and innocence of your youth; you see only the good in people...even sometimes when it's not there. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but if you are perfect for each other now, you will still be in 3 years. You have already waited 2 so you can do it. I'm sure you want your parents to see it from your point of view, so I ask you to see it from theirs. Imagine yourself as married with a 13 year old daughter. What would you tell her about this situation? If you would "just want her to be happy", then which do you think would make her happier-allowing herself to be a little girl for a few more years, or getting stuck in a relationship at such a young age?
Nobody would think of Romeo and Juliet as "romantic" if they had been allowed to date, got settled down and had a few rugrats. Eventually, they'd probably be divorced, once Romeo's washboard abs turned into a beer belly and Juliet let her looks go. Especially since their families couldn't get along. It's just because you can't have him that makes you like him so much more! Getting over the idea of having a relationship is much easier than getting over an actual one. Be smart. Don't sneak around with this guy. You have much more to lose than you can possibly gain, and YOU are the one who would be taking all the risks: not him. Remember that.