How to ask a singer to go on a date after their show?

[kat]

I have a small crush on a singer who isn't really popular/mainstream but has a pretty good following. He has a concert in my city in a few days and he's even put me on a list to get into the show for free. His drummer friended me on facebook and we talk on twitter/facebook/instagram sometimes, but he could do this to a lot of people. Anywho, the concert will be in a small location so it'll be up close and personal. How do I ask him to maybe hang out after the show and not seem like another fan girl? I've met a lot of famous singers in passing, but I'm kind of interested in getting to know him i want to ask him to go out for coffee maybe
I've worked behind stage at concerts and am pretty into the music world, but am far from a groupie. I've met many bandboys and know how they are, so i'm not talking about going backstage! I'm talking about going out for coffee or dinner and how to do it properly when we meet

[Pocket Protecktor]

Just walk up and say "Hey, I really dig your music, you want to get together and go get something to eat, I'm starving."

And if he turns you down, he's gay.

[Tammy]

Be careful, have you ever seen the movie, Showgirl? The two woman in this movie liked a band as well, and when one of the girls went to the concert and was invited backstage to see her favorite band/singer.... well lets just say it ended in a rape. Just a word of caution. If you are planning on meeting up with them backstage, make certain someone goes with you.

[Motambo]

Just hang out with them as best as possible, if he isn't a jerk then he won't mind. After you get more used to each other, then you can invite him to things. Guys don't like to be rude and outright deny people, but it also means you can't ever tell if they are really enjoying the company or just pretending.

[Genius lol]

I would probably meet him after the concert and talk to him about his performance. Don't rave on and on, just give out how you liked this song, how this song is your new favorite, blah blah blah. Just keep it short and sweet. But remember to use a normal voice, not a squeaky one like is a girl met Justin Beiber. Act like you have been his friend forever and this isn't anything new. This is the important part. When you ask him out, go for a cute kinda way, like saying " Hey, I was wondering if you would like to go out for some coffee with me sometime." Don't choke. I know it can be a little awkward at first, but just breath, not to loudly, and just say it. I know this sounds weird, but you might want to practice a bit into the mirror before you ask him, just so you already know what to say and you won't stumble on the words as you say it. Also remember lots of eye contact. It shows that your confident. Don't look at the floor or the ceiling. And don't use the word whatever. it shows that you just don't care, which can give him the wrong idea. If he says no, just say " Ok, cool.. " and act like it doesn't bother you. Try not to create any awkward moments. And let him talk too. Believe it or not, boys like to talk about their feelings too. Its a good sign if he laughs. Don't freak out if he doesn't. And most importantly, NEVER CHANGE WHO YOU ARE. It will make the entire process and relationship hard for you. Have fun and good luck!