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How can i get over my ex that i dated for a year?
11-27-2012, 06:47 AM
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How can i get over my ex that i dated for a year?
i just wanna get over my ex. we broke up about a month ago but talked for 2 more weeks but then he told me he found someone better. he still tells me he misses me and stuff but then he'll call me a dumb bitch and a piece of shit. every time i see him talking to a girl on twitter or facebook or something i get so upset. everyday im in a bad mood because of him. i just wanna be over. i tried to delete him on facebook and everything but then i just went into his facebook because i know all his passwords. i cant delete his number i know it by heart. i need help Sad
im 16 not 12-14 lol

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11-27-2012, 06:55 AM
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To forget about an ex or someone who rejected you, you must take up a new hobby. I am learning Spanish at the moment and it is helping to some extent. That's just what I think. Don't do anything stupid like threatening him. I made threats years ago in a similar situation when a woman rejected me and I was sent to jail.

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11-27-2012, 06:55 AM
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I feel for you. I dated my ex for almost two years, broke up in February of this year, so it's been 9 months now and I'd say I'm just now FINALLY getting over him. Unfortunately, it takes everybody a different amount of time. I've heard different rules like, expect it to take half as long as you were dating the person, etc. That might be a good guideline, but really everyone has to do it in their own time. Things I did to help get over him were to remember the bad things, ask myself if I would have been happy if things stayed the same way they were (the answer is no), focus on myself - pick up new hobbies, work out, play with my makeup, go out with friends, set new goals, try going on dates with other people, etc. Good luck!
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11-27-2012, 06:55 AM
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By the sounds of it you are 12 to 14 and have absolutely no idea whatsoever what love or romance is all about. Secondly, if Facebook, Yahoo questions and Twitter are your methods of communicating, you are in serious need of help. Turn off your computer and pick up your TELEPHONE. You know the thing that is the basic function of your texts. Phone him. TALK to him and do not use or accept any foul of filthy language. If he is a gentleman and shows you respect, consider taking a step back and getting together with him again. If he is NOT a gentleman or fails to show you respect, dump him and find a guy who has manners and a good personality. Then don't look back. Good luck.
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11-27-2012, 06:55 AM
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Dear stranger, I know what you are going through. Me and my girlfriend broke up a year ago after dating for 2 years. I was so lost and heart broken. But here are things you'd have to do to get over him: 1st lose all the connections with him (texting, Facebook, calling, hanging out, everything). That's extremely crucial. You have to stay strong and not get in contact with him whatsoever! 2nd go do something that will keep you busy! Hang out with friends, go find a new hobby, spend time with your family, watch funny movies! (And at your current situation I would suggest the movie 500 days of summer: great movie for broken hearted people) do anything and everything that would get your mind off of him. Stop creeping on him on Facebook. 3rd when you're missing him, think about all the bs he put you through, all the bad things he's done! Never think of the good things. Ever. It's not healthy for you. 4th (optional) go find someone new. Someone better! Don't just go and hook up with someone, find a good friend! Or best friend to just have fun and hang out with! But honestly the best answer to your question is TIME. Only time can heal your broken heart. It takes time to not feel anything for him. It'll take months till you get over him if you really liked him. Maybe even a year. But if you do the 4th step I'm pretty sure you can get over him in no time! And don't worry you WILL find others.
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