Im In Love, Help Me (please read, 10 points)?

[LifesHard]

Its hard to keep this short, so if you do anything to help another today please let it be this. Ive known this girl for 2 months, we started the same course together and will be in the same class for 2 years and im so in love, more than ever. Her beauty is complimented so much by her faultless and amazing personality that she outshines me. She could have most guys she wants, im pretty good looking maybe a 7 or 8 and luckily im in a class full of male geeks (no disrespect).

At first we never spoke but in the past month she has been trying to crack my shy shell around her, she would ask me to go to the cafeteria with her, to the printer etc she asked me to add her on fb and asked if I wanted to add her BBM. She usually looks at me and says my name in a goofy way and this is sounds like typical "girl likes guy right" I would think so too if it wasn't for the fact she acts similar with most guys, maybe a BIT more with me. A couple times she has screenmunched our convos on BBM and DP'd them.

The thing is she never messages me when we are at home (apparently guys are supposed to send first) I took the day off today and she has not messaged me, her nature is flirtatious and child like so that also scares me into thinking maybe im just another "friend". I think she has lost patience with me being so shy with her and lost interest if there ever was any, the past two days we have barely spoke, it annoys me because I want her so bad but I cant act interesting and funny like I naturally am around her. I love this girl, some signs tell me she atleast likes me back like when she asks me to go places during school time, and when she says "where are you going for break" and she always says it in a goofy way with a big smile on her face, but I rarely catch her looking at me, unless we are conversing. Im so confused, and I feel like ive lost my chance. She knows guys like her because on twitter she said "guys always fall in love with me" so im like many others, I cant openly say any of this to her, we are a tight knit class and I will be ridiculed and become an outcast if I try and get rejected trust me I know the dynamics of our class. I need advice also please explain why you think she may or may not like me, she acts a bit different with me and asks me to go places with her in school, she has been trying to get to know me, but she does other stuff to make me think im nothing special to her...

[Kayla]

You shoulx try to ask her out. If you dont think she really des just keep looking for hints. Im a girl and the way your describing it is your one of her best guy friends to her. Which is a good place to be because those type of friendships turn into bf and gf and they usually make it because u have known each other for so long. It also sounds like she could like you. When i like a guy i usually ask him to go places with me to see if he makes a move or just to talk and give openings for him. Good luck. You sound like your really in love with her. But remember love can be dangerous.

[explicit_content]

You level of infatuation after 2 months is astounding.

I suppose as long as you're not stalking her than your within your boundaries.

[K]

In a funny sort of a way she does sound a lot like me. Not the looks, just the acting the same with everyone. However, if she's really trying to crack your shy cocoon you've made for yourself, don't throw her away as a lost cause just yet!

If she sees you as 'just' a friend then I'm not sure what I can say except be yourself and try to hint to her that you like her. By being more friendly, opening up to her, saying things like ' I've only ever told you'. Tell her how special you think your relationship is and the occasional teasing doesn't go amiss.

However, be wary that she's not just seeing you as a really fun friend to hang with. Try to make it something more!

[Andy]

Oh my god dude!
Same thing with me. Except i met this girl after school because we had to finish our labs for chemistry. We were in the back doing the lab and around the first 15 minutes she puts her leg on top of the stool and stands on the other as if i wanted to look up her skirt. But i'm not that type of guy. Then towards the middle i asked her if she knew the answers to some questions and she let me copy them. Then she finished before me and before she left said "Hey whats your name?" then she told me her name and left. We don't really talk much but i really like her, and we say hi to each other when we pass by in the hall.
I told my friends all about it and they were all like, "Wow you're lucky, she totally likes you."
And there's that same problem where she acts all natural with other guys around her, but my goal here is to be one of those guys.
From the looks of it, I'd say that your girl really really likes you and is just trying her best to get you to open up. Whenever she asks you to go somewhere, you go! and start small talk so that both of you can feel comfortable, both girls and guys don't like it when someone is too nervous or shy with them. I wouldn't worry about her other guy-friends too much because you're probably one of them, and if she's asking you to go places with her then she probably wants you to be more than just a friend. Good luck!