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no responses yet. someone help please for 10 points?
10-03-2012, 12:26 PM
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no responses yet. someone help please for 10 points?
OK: was seeing this local guy. Was great to start with. He’d cook me dinner, breakfast and be very kind to me all the time. We never even slept together. Then things went ugly and so he broke it off with me. It was partly my fault. We only saw each other for about a month (beginning until the end of June)
We had an argument a good three weeks back after we’d been out at a party and things were just dreadful and awkward after the argument as silly things were said which shouldn’t have been.
Anyway last night was the first time I’ve saw him (Gary) since then. I was at my local bar with a few friends and all of a sudden he shows up. I told him I wouldn’t be out that weekend in hope that I wouldn’t have to face him. One of my guy friends is a mutual friend of his. So he started chatting away to him and I tried to avoid Gary as much as I could. Anyway eventually he caught eyes with me and gave me a soft look and smiled. It was ok but still kind of awkward to start with. Gary and my guy friend were then talking about this other girl who was at the bar and how gorgeous she was. However Gary shut up when he realised I was listening. Obviously my heart sank a bit when I overheard this.
So even when I was sitting with my friends Gary would look over every now and then at me, most of the time I’d catch him out the side of my eye. Anyway, about half 11 I was to be picked up by one of my guy friends. I informed Gary of this and said bye as he was going to meet his other friends at another local pub at this time.
Coincidentally, I ended up running into Gary again just as my friend was arriving to pick me up. He stood and talked briefly for a bit and then said gloomily that he was going home because he wasn’t in the mood to be out. He was in a generally strange mood. I tried to cheer him up and said he’d have a good time out with his friends. Anyway my friend Ryan arrived to pick me up and Gary all of a sudden hopped in the front seat and decided he was coming with us. He suggested going a drive to Mcdonalds and so we did.
I ended up getting locked out of my house and so Gary offered me to stay at his. I agreed (we were both slightly intoxicated, but knew what we were doing). Anyway I got to his house and he let me walk upstairs in front of him placing his hand gently on my back. We got to his room and put on a film. He let me choose and offered me pyjamas. He asked if I’d cuddle him, so I did and we kissed and snuggled up together. It was slightly awkward to begin with, but we chatted a little and he played with my hair and stroked my face which was nice. We fell asleep head by head hand in hand and toes touching.
I had to get up around 9 to go home and he saw me out to the front door. I never kissed or hugged him because I wasn’t sure where I stood or even, how he was feeling. I had no idea if he felt awkward. He said he’d text later. Unfortunately I accidentally lifted his glasses so I had to text him about that before he even had a chance to text me.
What is actually bothering me is the fact that 10 minutes after I left his place one of our mutual friends said he posted a remark on his twitter saying: “I’m good at being a *insert derogatory word for one suffering with downs syndrome here*”

I do not have twitter, but I don’t know what he means by this. Obviously this was a sarcastic comment, I just don’t know what I’m supposed to have done. I feel its aimed at me in the sense that he’s disappointed for letting me stay over and cuddle and kiss after telling me it was over between us. I just have no idea and it’s kind of upsetting me.
I just asked if he was awkward about things but he said no and that I hadn’t to apologise and that he’d had a good laugh with me. I am so confused haha.

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10-03-2012, 12:34 PM
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You've had no responses because nobody can be arsed to read your long winded message, sorry but it's true!

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10-03-2012, 12:34 PM
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I was gonna answer, then I was hit by a wall of text. Use proper paragraphs.
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10-03-2012, 12:34 PM
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Sorry but this 'friendship' or whatever you like to call it, is over.
Gather up all your self respect and move on. Don't hang around or wait for this creep. Just move straight along. You have done nothing wrong, except maybe be too trusting and a bit naive. Don't beat yourself up about it. And don't be confused. You met a jerk, and now it's over. There really isn't a proper explanation, it's just part of life experience. It happens to many people.
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10-03-2012, 12:34 PM
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No one has responded because there is no question.....you told a long story, but just said you're confused. So what do you want answered?????
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10-03-2012, 12:34 PM
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What a pickle! I don't think he sounds quite cryptic and vague. Not always a good mixture. I would just wash my hands of him and ignore the wierd tweet he put up. You're probably better off without him. His comment could have referred to two things - he was stupid by letting you stay the night - whether that's because he doesn't have feelings for you and doesn't want you to think it meant something or he does have feelings for you and think tout don't have feelings for him.
Hope I helped Smile
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