How to end a relationship that i've been in forever?

[Natalie Duncan]

Sara and me were best friends since pre-k....and know all she does is make fun of me and tease other people. Everyone calls her a "b¡tch" and stuff and I don't want to hang out with her anymore. How do i end the relationship with out her going all crazy....like talking about you and stuff. The thing is ice true before and they never worked (blocked her from my phone,Facebook,Twitter ect...) And she always seems to break me. I need help!

[Timothy]

tell her your a lesbian and try to kiss her, she will stay away

[kyle]

Just avoid her as much as possible, I did that to one of my old friends

[john]

Okay here are your options.

1. Talk to here about it with lots of detail. Do not include "Promise you wont be mad?"
2. Tell her off, (I would.) Since everyone thinks she is a b*tch, I would just tell her off to blend in.
3. Be creative. (Prank here, Have a friend talk bad about you.) You get the idea.

Hope this helped....

[Megan]

Ok.... Same thing happened to me last year I got sick of my friend being a bitc* to me all the time she made fun of me believing in god so I just flipped and told her I'm done with her shi* she said some pretty hurtful stuff to me for the next 2 weeks she wasn't worth my time I was literally depressed I almost had to go see a therapist and change schools it became a huge problem everyone hated her but no one believed me the things she was saying they all believer her... I only had 2 friends that believed me and were there for me the rest all took her side because she was more popular even tho everyone hated her... It was huge I cried every night she was so mean to me but I eventually toughed it out and got over it... Then things changed people started taking my side... I was happier better person and I am to this day... And I'm only 14 I never thought someone could be so mean to me but Obveiously there are some seriously sick people out there... U need to end the relationship now because if u give her second chances it won't work I gave her way too many second chances and everytime she got worse u just need to tell her ur dome with her and u don't want to be treated that way... Get out of it now or you will be depressed trust me I'm so happy I got out of that friendship... Course it was insanely hard because she was my best friend but I knew it was for the best and now I'm popular and have lots of friends life's way better...

[Michael]

You have a real opportunity to be a great friend to this person. And you are in a unique position to do it since you have grown up with her.

Pick a quiet time and sit her down and talk to her Tell her what you have said in your post. Let her know what other people are saying about her, what they call her. You don't have to identify the people. Tell her unless she changes her behavior you no longer want to be her friend.

This will be very difficult for you and most people simply move on when a friendship is no longer working, But if you speak with her, this could be a life changing event in her life. She is likely not very happy and perhaps not certain why.

And if you can't tell her, there may be nobody else out there. She may react very negatively, but she will hear you!

You don't get many opportunities in life to make a major difference in someones life. Now you do.