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I have no life... please help...!?
12-03-2012, 08:12 PM
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I have no life... please help...!?
Hi there. I'm 16 and i have no life. i have nothing to do besides home work and i don't have any friends to hang out with and all i do is stay home surfing the web. i'm so sick and tired of this kind of life and it's not healthy but there's nothing i can do. my parents are strict and they don't want to drive me anywhere so i can't join any sports. i'm not allowed to go more than 3 houses away from my house so i don't know where to go. i just want to be like everyone else and have a normal life like every other teen. i can draw and i love to draw, but i can't just draw all the time.
i've been so bored lately cauz everything is just so boring. theres nothing new to discover, no one to talk to and it's just so frustrating. and i live in the most boring place on earth...
i don't know why no one wants to be friends with me, and i don't think i'm mean or anything, but for some reason, people just seem to not notice me. and the only people i can talk to is my younger sisters, but they are just so annoying and rude, i can't stand them any more.
i know that you'll probably say, "just get a life", but i really need help. please give me any suggestions i will be forever grateful to you!

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12-03-2012, 08:20 PM
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Try your best to make friends..... I'll let others help you with that.

In the meantime find something that is fun, and constructive. Take up working out, computer programming, even building websites instead of just playing around on the computer......

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12-03-2012, 08:20 PM
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Its your parents fault. At the age of 16 and only 3 houses away? I mean when i was 16 i was allowed to leave 3 cities away without asking anyone permission. Talk to your parents. I don't have a lot of friends either, only 1 best friend (the kind i'd give my life for). Your life is ahead, don't worry, you'll get there.
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12-03-2012, 08:20 PM
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I dn't know what to tell you,maybe get a job and make friends there? oh wait you have a job... try to befriend more people, or include yourself with them,be more outgoing
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12-03-2012, 08:20 PM
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Maybe I'm younger than you (now 14), but at least I can help.
When I was 12, I only have 3 friends, and I can't hangout because no one wants to drive me there. All I do is surf the damn web everyday, and watching facebook posts that makes me real sick. That happened for around 2 years, so I've escaped that life some months ago. Until I found a great motivation..

First, I find some friends, at least I must have 25 friends (friends that really talk and hangout) but I'd prefer chat on phone, because I'm too lazy to go hangout with some friends. My parents let me go outside. They just don't let me go home more than 10 pm, well I don't like it, but I rarely hangout anyway. I always walk from school to home, sometimes with some friends.
That's connection.

Second, you like to draw? Well me too, why don't show em' your skill and trap them in a 'fan' life? At boring lectures, I always draw, sharpened pencils and rubber erasers are my best friends in school, well, not really, but at least I can draw. Always draw something that is 'eyecatching' so friends that pass by will notice it. They will simply admire your work. For improvement, draw something (an eye for example). Draw them from sketch to the smallest details. Draw them as many as you can until you mastered how to draw an eye, then compare with your old drawings. You'll be simply glad for yourself.
That's talent.

Third, you have to do something that will long last in the ears of the people. Like draw a masterpiece so good, that is stunning and beauitful. People will suddenly know you more. You're now reknowned as an artist. Do something again! Like doing some badass stuff, for example, When you see a sign 'Don't litter', just drop some trash and take a photo. Upload on your social network (Facebook, Twitter, etc). You're now a badass artist!
That's fame.

Now? Now I live a normal and easy (not so easy) life.
Good luck.
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