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I'm 15 And I Think I'm Getting Bullied. help :(?
12-04-2012, 05:46 AM
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I'm 15 And I Think I'm Getting Bullied. help :(?
Basically I'm a 15 year old British Girl. I started off Secondary with loads of friends, I had a group of friends called "tight ten" because there was 10 of us and we're really tight friends. I fell in love with this boy, not then till I noticed one of my friends loved him too, I didn't want to ruin our friendship so I didn't tell anyone about my crush. Then in year 9 me and him went out undercover no one knew but one of my bestest friends, then something happened between us after a few days we broke up. 2 months later he went out with my friend which made me hate her so while they were together for 4 months I dated a guy I never liked just to make him jealous, which obviously worked. They broke up at april, I broke up with my boyfriend at july because I still loved the first guy and apparently he loved me back, in october (a year after our first day together). And everything went well, still under cover. Then around april loads of people found out and I lost all my friends even the bestest one, she left me because they were popular and she pretended she never knew about my relationship with him.

So I started a new life, I was unpopular but my grades got higher which made me more happy with my life. Now them girls are being childish and accusing me of stuff that I never done such as talk behind their back and write offensive tweets about them. I just kept quiet. Now they're threatening to beat me up when my boyfriends not around, I really don't know what to do, I'm scared. This is happening tomorrow Sad please help me :'(

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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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Haha f*cking slag, did you like his white cock? since its more important to you, haha deal with the hate coz u deserve it, dont come crying in yahoo. go n suck his cock

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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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The only thing I can say is tell parents or just your mum or even your gran. Try to ignore them. If your worried about tomorrow definitely tell someone.
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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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i know this is not what u wanna here but tell someone
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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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I don't know about the uk, but here in the us, schools are so sensitive about bullying they are more than happy to intervene. If it were here, I would tell a school official I trust. I am a teacher, and what I have done before, is make sure I am at the right place at the right time so I am a witness. If you run to the office with no proof, not only will people know you told on them, but nothing will happen to the perpetrators...your word against theirs. That will help in the future, so that people know to look out for it, but it won't help tomorrow.. If you have any proof at all, Facebook, twitter, a friend who can back you up, I would go straight to the principal/headmaster. I don't know what the culture is like over there with regards to tattling, but here it's frowned upon and sometimes people think it makes things worse...well it doesn't. These people already don't like you and are already threatening you...what do you have to lose. Good luck, young lady.


I hate bullies. Cowards. Don't just take it. You have to live with yourself forever. You have few opportunities to change the way you think about yourself. If you start accepting this type of treatment, when will it end? Abusive husband? Touchy,freely boss? Tell someone!
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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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if you're scared of telling your parents or the teachers, just do what I do, just take it, and ignore it, I've been bullied since I was in year 6.

Trust me, just do what I do, ignore it
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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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pshhhhhh oh man... i guess tell an adult you feel comfortable with maybe a school counselor or school principle i doubt you want to tell your parents so i think someone from school would be best and try to avoid them try to make new friends and dont take the bate, meaning dont fight back if they are mean to you dont be mean back that can get them more angry and maybe you in trouble :/ just ignore them or agree with them in a playful way... maybe you dont like doing that but trust me hope this helps :3
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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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First Of all , Hi , Second do these girls get to school before you , because if they don't as soon you get to school go straight to a teacher & tell them your worries .

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12-04-2012, 05:54 AM
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Firstly bullying is one of the worse things that can happen and under no circumstances should it be tollerated. These girls need to realise how serious this is. Tell your parents and maybe they can chat to the head teacher and if not then you go and tell your head teacher, if not the head tell a teacher that you trust. Dont ignore anything and dont consider not telling anyone.
Make a diary of everything that happened/ happens and record what is said and when, record the twitter comments and everything.

They are probably just trying to scare you but nevertheless them threatening you is a criminal offense and if it gets any worse then you might want to consider getting the police involved. So many people get bullied and it can get so bad because it is ignored and nothing is done about it so the bullies get away with it... but you stand up to them! tell people and make it clear to people that they are bullies and do not suffer in silence. Remember you dont have to put up with any type of bullying.

Also if the did attack you then, its GBH and then you should deffinatly call the police. They would get into a lot of trouble. Dont put up with this, people can help you.. good luck Smile
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