dont know what to do....she ignores me?

[simon]

I had a nice girl at work. We were spent a lot time together doing random projects and so on. She was really became my good friend. But she's married. As soon as I was offering her to go out for a coffee she accepted but when the actual day come she did not answer to me by email, or phone. Today I had a shocking news that she was dismissed of the company. So I straight away texted her as I had no chance to see her and say thanks for everything..all what she was texting me back is:thanks for your text, it was a big pleasure to work with you, good luck and have a nice day." I am so upset right now..so I was texting her back with a question: are we still up for a coffee? She didn't reply me back anything..It's been 8 hours since I was texting her about coffee.She probably very depressed and I think myself being stupid to ask her for another go to. Obviously when she was said "good luck" she meant she is not interested to go forward with me even as a friend..but why she did wish me a good day..i also was asking her whether can we chat on a facebook? she was completely ignored it. I am waiting for her reply..but no any luck...I don't know how to react...to leave it , or just keep trying..but she is really interesting person to spend a time with...

[mike_raver_1999]

Leave it totally. If she wants to see you, in any way, she'll be in touch. She knows that you'd be up for going for a coffee or having a chat, if she wants to do any of this she'll let you know. I suspect the answer is no because she's ignored your questions. It won't help you to keep contacting her.

[Jade]

your reading too much into this. i can tell she may like you but she may be scared to take it any further as it would be unfair to her husband. either that or maybe her husband is not comfortable with her going out with another guy alone. the text situation might either be that shes busy or that she doesnt know what to say. maybe you could send her a message saying that you miss her and want your friend back. and that you would love to get a cup of coffee with her sometime but if not thats fine just to tell you.

hope ive helped, JD

[Honor]

She might think / decide a) that it insensitive for you to ask her that so soon after she was fired
b) to stop using her phone as much
c) that your offer for coffee was asking her out on a date and she doesn't want to betray her husband
d) texting is too informal

[Keri]

she ignores you because you possible b*ng some women!

if you were my cousin