Overthinking sucks so bad...?

[Jezzy143]

I am often told I think to much. I can't help it. I also feel like I am never happy with my life. They say to be thankful for what you have and to feel blessed. I get on facebook and see the people that I graduated with and become very sad...and I guess jealous that they seem to have the perfect life. Like why do I feel like my life is so messy and not solid...and then there are others who seem to have everything. I know that everyone has a battle...but my gosh I wish I knew them so I felt like my life was normal. Because quite frankly...my life is a disorganized mess and I don't know how to get it the eff together. *sigh* So many things I think about doing with it.. I want a "susy homemaker" I want to be an independent adventurous woman.. I want to have an amazing love and best friend... but see no positive light on how to achieve these things. Or maybe I just don't have a want to... Blah. I guess I'm just venting.

[Why So Serious]

then stop. you can train yourself to do anything.

[hansblix222]

People on facebook just post stuff they want people to see, in most cases it's not a representation of reality

[Always smile]

Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don't wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it's at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savoured.

P.s always smile

[sunny]

I'm like that too. I learnt not to think too much when it comes to life, since life isn't fair to begin with. I feel more at peace with myself even when life sucks.

Also, happiness is just a state of mind. Instead of going on facebook to be depressed by comparing yourself with others, you can choose to cut yourself away from that and find your happiness elsewhere. Clear up your room, visit relatives and family who love and care for you, get a pet, give yourself a new look, learn how to cook a new dish and etc...

I really wish you all the best on your wants, because I am also having the same issues too and hope to find the love of my life and good friends that I can trust someday.

[Ego]

If you're looking for a fair world, well, you're not gonna find one. Doesn't mean people shouldn't be fair, but we definitely don't have a fair distribution of happiness in life, and that's not gonna change.
If you're looking for happiness, then first, stop looking for it by comparing yourself to others. It's a constant in life that there's always someone better off than you, and there is always someone worse off.
You had a place and a machine to type this.
You had felt love before, or you would not desire it so fervently.
You have known all along that perfection in life is impossible.
You have seen the masks that others put on, hoping that, if others think their lives are perfect, maybe someday they will be.
And you have undoubtedly seen some truly happy people, who have given themselves a reason to live.
I personally draw my purpose in life from religion (I'm a Muslim). That's my way of life, my lens through which I look at the world. It's helped me...maybe you already know what'll help you, but, like I was, you're not willing or motivated enough to follow through?
Maybe this isn't a satisfactory answer, but seriously: you are lucky for at least one reason: you're alive now. As long as you're alive, so is your hope, and so is your potential.
I hope this has helped. Have a great , successful ife.

[beinmoment]

i can sympathize i do the same thing and i over think about being alone the rest of my life it is horrible...i want to just be in the moment