need help conceiving maybe.?

[Leah]

I am 18, my boyfriend the same. Last year if you would've asked me if I ever wanted children I would have completely rejected the idea. Well, this year my boyfriend and I accidentally conceived and over the time period she was here, we completely readied ourselves and accepted the ideas of being parents. Yes, even beyond the cute stage. Actually we looked forward to it, our first priority. She stayed for five months then sadly passed away. Here's the thing now we'd like to try again. We're just fixing to move in together and working. I have this void it seems, aching for another child. Not to replace my daughter, most definitely not that, but because I have set myself up for it wholeheartedly and it was taken from me.

[Take a Test]

What's the question? You don't need help conceiving. You were able to get pregnant before, so there is no reason you can't again.

[DaylunDubstep]

Sorry for your loss. That must of bin tough on both of you. In my opinion your both at a good age to have kids. Your young and the younger the parents the more connection they have with their kids. I would say its a better idea to conceive when your not stressed as stress levels can affect your body. Just remain calm, comfortable and you and your bf will have another little life in the future. Patience I wish you both the best of luck

[jackie m]

You have been pregnant before and can do it again but can I suggest you wait until your grieiving is over or you will spend most of your time grieving when new baby arrives and not enjoy life with her/him and you are just fixing to move in together so get all that sorted out before thinkig of conceiving, good luck.

[Jiffy]

Did the doctors run any tests to find out why you lost the baby. You obviously don't have problems conceiving but unless you know what happened to end you last pregnancy there is no way to know if it will happen again or what can be done to prevent it. Most likely it was just a fluke. Either way you should seriously think about having a baby at this point in time. I'm not being judgemental honest. When I was 18 I was sexually assaulted and became pregnant but miscarried in the first trimester. 4 months later my then fiancé decided we should try for a baby. I was living at home and he had an efficiency apartment. I was 19 when our son was born and we had gotten an apartment when I was 7 months along. My mother threw me out when she found out I was pregnant and refused to abort. After my son was born my son's father completely changed. He decided having a baby was a mistake and wouldn't have anything to do with him. He became abusive and isolated me from my friends and family. I finally managed to get out when my son was 3. I struggled working 2 jobs plus going to school full time to get a better job so I would have to work so hard. I struggled with daycare (my parents didn't want to baby sit and often would fight with me about it.) Sometimes I went without food so my son could eat. It took 10 years to get on my feet, remarry, and get to a point where I now own a house. You should finish college or at least complete a certificate course and get started in a career field before having a baby. Minimum wage is not enough to survive on by yourself never mind take care of a child on. There are so many expenses you don't even realize until you have a child. I just had my second baby (out first with this marriage) and things have come up we didn't realize. I've had a child before and we still couldn't be 100% ready. No one ever is.

[Des]

When me and my husband were trying to conceive it took us years to finally get pregnant. We went to doctors and they all said me and him were fine and that we were able to conceive but about a year later we were back trying to get meds to help us conceive. We tried different medications and just could not figure out why we weren’t conceiving. We both became extremely frustrated and started fighting more because we both wanted to start a family but couldn’t. I started venting my anger and jealousy on facebook and to my friends who had already settled down and started families. One day I was having coffee and ran into an old friend I hadn’t talked to in a while and he suggested http://pregnancymarvel.com/ and said that it had helped him and his wife start a family. I was at my point of giving up but I said hey what harm could it do right since ive done everything else I could think of. So I ordered my copy and was finished reading it within 3 days (I couldn’t put it down lol) and I learned and immense amount about conceiving and when I will ovulate and how to track my ovulation. We also learned some things that we didn’t even think were important in conceiving. It doesn’t matter if you have pcos or any other fertility problem it helps get around that and miscarriages. It guarantees pregnancy within 3 months. I reread it multiple times and me and my husband started doing the things it taught us and started eating right and 2 months and 2 weeks later we conceived and it was the best thing that’s happened to us. Now 3 years later and we have a beautiful baby boy and a year and a half year old baby girl. It feels so good to wake up every morning and hold them in my arms. I am forever grateful and would recommend this to anyone just remember never give up when things get tough. Good luck on your journey ttc!!