what should I do now?

[Bobby]

I have a situation on my hands, and although it's going to sound minor, it's actually a big deal. To start off with, I need to mention a few details first, before I get into the details of what happened, or the information I provide won't make any sense. I am adopted, and my older sister and I have grown up in two different families. (She's actually my half sister, and she's turning 22 in February). One day, about five months ago, I told her about a crime I committed at the age of 17 (I'm now 19). I told her to keep it confidential, and not tell anybody else. She agreed to keep it a secret. Now flash forward to two weeks ago. Our biological mother (who is in jail) caught wind of the crime I had committed, and she had all kinds of questions about it. Upon reading the letter, I found out that my Aunt Joy had told her about it.
Upon coming across this information, I went on to facebook to ask ask my sister Molly about it, and that's when she confessed that she had told HER parents, and that she had told them to keep the information confidential too. When I found this out, I was beyond angry, and I eventually talked my sister into giving me her parent's email address. I than proceeded to write a lengthy, vulgar, insulting, and critical email to Jack & Joy. The very next day, Molly roughly translated a response to the email via facebook. The message from Joy, completely denied the allegations, and went on to blame other family members. This enraged me even more, because my sister told me herself that Joy was the only person she told, and not only that, but my biological mother said in her letter exactly who had told her. I thought it was a b*tch move for Joy to not even respond to my email directly. I hated it even more that she continued to deny the fact that she had done it, despite the fact that I had all kinds of evidence pointing back at the source. I guess the old saying is true "Three people can keep a secret if two people are dead". I followed up my previous email to Joy, by explaining to her that I had undeniable proof that she was the one who had told my mom. I sent the follow up email three days ago. Joy has not responded yet, which makes me think that she knows that I know it was her. If she would just admit to it, then I wouldn't be bagging on her for this. It's sh*t like this that makes me not want to associate with my mom's family (with the exception of my Aunt Jackie, my sister Molly, and my mom).

[mamaw2305]

Not many people can keep a secret.So if you do not want anything to be told then keep it to yourself as you are the one who could not keep your own secret.So now you have to pay the price of letting someone you know that betrayed your trust.Leave it alone and stop the e mails as things will only get worse.Next time only trust yourself.