Did I screw up? Or did I do the right thing?

[Mitchell]

I really liked this girl, and it seemed like she really liked me, but something happened. We hung out on Friday, which was apparently a date, which I didn't realize until Sunday because of a lack of experience. When it came time to go back to school, she avoided talking to me Monday and Tuesday. She didn't have a smile on her face, and she wouldn't even wave when I waved. I sensed something was wrong by the end of Monday, but I figured maybe she was just having a bad day, or for some reason she was mad at me. So, I just left her alone. When it came to Tuesday, she barely talked to me to ask me what my friend did with her stuff, and then she just avoided the French and Spanish club later. My friend told me that she said I was boring and that she didn't like me anymore. Now, I would have tried to show her otherwise, but her clearly avoiding me, just pissed me off to no end. She could have just told me that she didn't like me and that I was boring. She didn't show it at all on Friday but whatever. Since I was so angry, I decided I would send her a message on Facebook since she doesn't have a phone, since she wouldn't talk to me in person. So I sent her:

"Since you clearly don't want to talk to me in person, then I guess this will have to do. You don't have to avoid me to let me know that you don't like me anymore, if you ever did. I'm sorry that I'm so boring, it probably has something to do with the fact that I am so nervous around you, which has to deal with the fact that you are so beautiful and that you are the second girl I've even spent quality alone time with. But, I shouldn't make excuses, so I'll stop there. You could have told me that you don't like me, and that I am boring, but I guess you took the easy route. I'm 17 and I've been rejected all but one time before you, so it's not like I can't take it, it just really aggravates me the way you handled it. I was going to ask you out officially sometime this week, because I didn't realize until Sunday that apparently Friday was a date, but I guess that would be pointless now. Call me a coward for talking to you over Facebook, but whenever I was going to talk to you to see what was wrong this morning, you left as soon as you got your books. I would've been fine being friends, but apparently you don't even like seeing me, with how big of a frown you have when you see me now. Have a good night, sorry I wasted your time"

We flirted a lot, and hung out before Friday, and it seemed like she was really into me, but it seemed to change over the weekend, and I just don't understand how bowling (Friday) was boring, yet walking the halls of the school for twenty or more minutes wasn't (unless that was boring to her too, and I just don't realize it)? She full hugged me after walking the halls, and half hugged me after I suggested it on Friday.
Should I have tried to kiss her on Friday? Is that why she was annoyed with me? Was there ever a chance for me in the future to be her boyfriend? Is there still? If she avoided me, and acted like she wanted nothing to do with me, was there before the message or is there even a possibility for a friendship?

[$$$$$$]

Bithces are crazy, bro'. I am 20 and was recently talking to this girl for a few months. Everything seemed perfect and one weekend she just flipped out and said she "needs time to clear her head" and that she would text me when she's ready. Well, that was at the very beginning of this month and I still haven't heard from her. I sent her an email almost saying the same stuff. I pretty much told her I wasn't going to chase her and if she doesn't text me, whatever. It's her loss. So since we said something similar, I think you did the right thing. Just don't make anymore contact with her. I really liked this chick. I think I liked her more than any girl I've ever liked. Sending her that message was a huge relief and now I don't care if I ever hear from her again. She obviously didn't know what was right in front of her. That's the mentality you need to have.

Also, listen to "Superman" by Eminem. That song always helps me move on from a chick.