HELP what do i do in this situation?

[juliosanchez581]

what can you do if a girl thinks your annoying or if your coming on a little bit too strong because i met my crush this summer and we use to txt all the time during the summer she gave me her number through facebook and we use to keep conversations going with each other until 2am but then she got her phone taken away and we didn't talk for a couple of weeks then she got her phone back and we texted.. last time we texted like to have a full extended conversation was like 2 months ago and recently i texted her a couple of times sometimes she responds with simple responses and sometimes she doesn't at all like for example yesterday "happy thanksgiving" and she replied saying "you too" but i told this to my friend to see what he thought and he told me that she probably only replied to that because she felt she had to.. and now i'm in the situation where i feel like i'm the annoying person texting her because that was like the 4th time txting her without a response but idk what happened really between me and her it was just like from one week to another then i stopped talking to her in person because i immedietly came to a conclusion that she was mad ( idk why) or annoyed. what should i do at this point just leave the situation alone? or try to talk or confront her in person, for now i'm just trying to get the conclusions out of my head that she likes me because i really felt like we had a magic spark or something she use to call me nicnames like "punk" with smiley faces afterwards and she use to txt me first sometimes but i just felt that all this happened bcus of something that i probably did that i'm no aware of..

[Megz]

Maybe her parents told her to not text as much? its a possibility.

Remember that guys should always make the first move. But dont overdo it. Text her like once a week. There r some guys on my contact list that text me everyday amd its so annoying. (lol dont be one of them).

Bring up a topic that you both enjoy to talk about. For example if you both like soccer say "Hey did ya see the Chelsea vs Athletico Madrid game yesterday night?" Be casual and dont be awkward.

[Kay]

Either ignore it or if you would rather try again then tell her how you feel but keep it short sweet and to the point. Ask her if there is anyhting you did or if she simply lost interest because that happens. Unfortunately, that happens with me all the time. I will be really into a guy for a little while then lose interest out of no where. If she replies with, to you seems like a "crap" answer, then i would say it is time to leave the situation alone.
hope that helps some.

[ashley]

leave her alone for a while.. have her text or call u first.. or have a friend ask her what going on...

[Chenise]

This happened to me with a guy friend of mine. We talked just as much as u did than suddenly it stopped. Yes it can be pretty depressing.
I don't think she finds u annoying though. It could be because she had her phone taken away, causing her to kind of drift from you.
Does she live away from you? if so that could be another reason. She may think that it won't work out. Long distance relationships are hard.
If she lives in the same town try asking if she wants to hang out. If she says no than, sorry to say it but she might not like u like she did. if she has an excuse try asking another day and if the same thing happens than try texting her and if she replies try and keep the coversation going. no matter how dull it can get. Text like u used to and act normal.
You also just ask if she's mad at you for something.
I can honestly relate to this situation and I still don't fully understand it.
hope I helped a bit

[Monkey]

You're not annoying her you just got boring to her.

If you want to turn that "spark" back on it's time to turn things up a notch!
Be more assertive with you're jokes but not offensive (yep, sex jokes count too) (;
(For guys only) No more long texting conversations keep them short. Doing that makes you seem like you'd be one of her chick friends. This is a turn off to chicks unless you put your self in the dreaded friend zone.
Make them wonder what you're doing don't to tell them everything.
No being desperate, clingy, or complaining. Chicks hate that too, that is unless you're stuck in her dreaded friend zone.
Whenever you hangout again, show her who's the man in the relationship by not being afraid of touching her or saying whatever you feel like saying at the moment (don't say anything that would completely turn her off, though)
Long story short: be whatever your inner man tells you to be. No hiding it.