Did he really love me? Did he get scared? Was it all a game? I don't know what happen?

[Ms.MHM]

I have been dating a guy for about 3 weeks. I knew him in college but we never said any thing to each other. He sent me a message on facebook we exchange #'s and we been talking and texting each other all day and everday like we were bestfriends. I never had the intention of dating him or even getting to the point where we start show affection. Because then i had Just recently move out of state. I wasn't even attracted to him at first, but the more i talked to him more attractive he started getting to me. He told me he had a crush on me in college but was too shy to say anything.We would joke and laugh together like we been talking for years. He recorded me a song in the studio and it was amazing. He keep saying this is too good to be true. He cant believe he actually talking to me. We just had an connection. I never had the feeling with anyone before and im just 26 year old. Then he hit me with the"I Love You" it shocked me and caught me off guard. I couldnt say it back at first. But a day later i was able to say it. My love for him was getting stronger and stronger each day. He later ask me was i his girlfriend and i said yes i would love to. He told me every since he started talkin to me i made him feel like the happiest man in the world. And honsetly I felt the same way. He made me feel so special and he filled this void that was in my life. I never had a man that showed so much love and affection the way he. I had to come back to town to handle some business and also go the a big football classic our college have every year. So I met up wit him. We spent the day together and being in his presence was amazing, it felt like we been together for a very long time. Went to the movies i cooked him dinner. We didn't have sex.He said that he cant believe that he love me this much. We really enjoyed each other company.

Few days later our conversation faded then he stopped talking to me. He wouldn't answer my calls or texts. So I text him and said you u just kicked me to the curb huh? He said no I will never do that. Then the ignoring continues. Then he finally replied to my text and he said you just kicked me to the curb huh? It was like he was trying to flip it on me. Then the ignoring still continue. I was so hurt and my heart was broken. I just left it all alone. Maybe like 2 weeks later I text him just to say hey and he was like where have you been? I was like are you serious u stopped talking to me. Then I texted him on his birthday last week he said I miss you soooo much. I'm not understanding what he doing or how he really feels about me. Then I had got a call from the job I had last year and they said they needed me so I moved back to town sunday because I needed a job. He found out I moved back. He text me good morning bae I see u moved back. You wasn't gon tell me? But why would I tell him and he stopped talking to me without any explanation. Then he said he would love to see me. I'm confused! I don't know what's going on. Did he really love me or was it all a game? My feeling are still deeply hurt because all the stuff he said and did he just took it all away from me. The song he made for me I can't even listen to without getting sad.
To answers your question @Silence. He ask me to be his girlfriend. He told me" you got me and I'm not going anywhere." He said that he wanted me in jus life forever.
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[Silence]

He was probably busy, or in an awkward moment at the time. Maybe in the span of time that he ignored you, he was in trouble at work, or he was in the middle of a big problem, something traumatic, or that reminded him of something bad. Maybe he ended up with someone else, and felt awkward to see you after cheating on you. BUT, are you sure that he wanted to be your boyfriend instead of just friends? I mean really good friends? He seems like the type who needs someone (like you) to cling on to. Like one of your close kin. If none of that works, then maybe he started something (like an addiction) and didn't want you to see him like that. But I know for one thing, HE COULDN'T just have left you like that. I mean, even if he didn't like you in the first place, he grew on to you in the time he spent with you. He definitely has feelings for you. It's way too hard for a guy like that to just ditch you. It's just TOO unbearable to know you broke the heart of someone who loves you, especially the fact that he said 'I love you' first, he definitely loves you. I hope this works out for you, and let me know if it does!