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How to stop this virgo guy from being mad at me?
12-05-2012, 10:07 AM
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How to stop this virgo guy from being mad at me?
Me and this virgo guy have been talking for about 4 months now going on 5 he lives 2 hours away from me we are from the same town but I stay in Atlanta things are starting to get real between me and him I can talk to him about almost anything and he gives me great advice I hate being distance from him he gets mad when he can't see me the way he wants my car broke down and he got mad and told me that I'm playing with his emotions and he really has deep feelings for me and he is ready to make me his girlfriend. He said he couldn't deal with a liar and he was very upset his phone just got cut off and I tried to message him on Facebook to let him know that I wanted to be with him for the weekend but it said that he got my message but he didn't reply back please help me and please no rude comments thanks

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12-05-2012, 10:15 AM
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are you sure he's a virgo? hahaha
well it sounds like he just likes you a lot and might have a wee little anger problem...
homeboy is overreacting like a motherfucker, and you shouldn't put yourself in that situation. imagine how he'd react if you cheated. i just don't want you to get hurt physically or emotionally, and this dude seems like all he's going to cause is drama and pain if you let yourself get attached.

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12-05-2012, 10:15 AM
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Virgo sounds a bit demanding and very much unreasonalbe. I mean, he can't understand that your car broke down ? he sees this as you playing hard to get ? this is an unrational guy, who does not sound worth your trouble!
It sounds like he wants everything done his way at his convienence and no one else including you or your feelings matter.
My question is, you met him online and you are talking ect ect. Are you sure you are really attracted to him as a person, or are you attracted to the persona of this person you have built up in your mind.
This happens a lot of internet relationship type things. You want so much to have someone and to have someone you feel completely understands you and is a good listener, when in most cases, it turns out the person is nothing like what you have built them up to be in your mind, and more often than not, this gets found out the hard way...after the damage is done.
Forget demanding virgo man...find someone real.
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12-05-2012, 10:15 AM
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I am having the same issue with my boyfriend. It's like sometimes we plan to meet up and very seldomly i can't make it because i had prior plans like bible study at 6 every week on monday and he gets mad at me and ignores me for a whole day.

I asked my grandma for advice and she said that he is very selfish and your bf is being that way too. Just because things arent going his way he should not ABSOLUTELY NOT! get angry with you or try to make u feel bad like your car broke down. THAT IS NOT IN YOUR CONTROL! He is already showing selfish behavior by getting mad at you. You need a man who is understanding and considerate. who will b like able to express "baby im disapointed because i wanted to see you but things happen" maybe even try to take a bus to see you or give you money to see him by bus what ever it takes.

I know a lot of us women think we have to like do what ever to appease our men but im sorry maybe idk anything but i don't think spoiled immature attitudes like that are manly at all. Its okay that he is frustrated just like my bf is too but he needs to learn to be more understanding and cooperative and come to terms that yall live apart and if he doesnt like it then he need to find someone else or make it his own business to see you if he really wanted too. Only because your car broke down.

Dont let him make you feel guilty please for his own impatience and immaturity. "Im not talking to you because your car broke down and cant see me" just like my boyfriend childish "I'm not talking to you because you couldnt come see me today"

Sad i hope i helped you <3
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