Why do I feel like I need to get to know this guy?

[anon]

This year, I stumbled upon a really gorgeous guy who lives in America (I live in Australia) and I added him on facebook and such. I always read his statuses and find him so fascinating. He talks about his feelings and his dreams and tells us about what's going good and bad in his life and my heart just goes out to him for all of it. We've spoken a few times but seeing as we have totally different lives we can't ever have a truly decent conversation, time zones, his work getting in the way etc. I've had a dream about him, too and before having met him I always wanted to move to New York, which is coincidently where he is moving to soon. I always think of him like he was someone who was meant to be in my life, like some fate kind of thing and I know it sounds crazy but that's how I feel. Like if I meet him it might change everything and we might actually wind up being together.. Why do I feel this way?

[Patrick]

It's natural to feel that way about a guy. Be true to yourself, and things will work out.