what is he feeling? and how do i get him back? I'll answer your questions?

[Hello]

so me and this guy were together and we had been best friends before that. we were going to have sex(first time for both of us). but the day before we were going to do it, i saw him hugging this girl who is a slut from the back and it seemed a little more than a friend hug and he was also playing around with this other girl. the thing is though that he is just naturally like that i guess so i don't think he did it on purpose. anyways so that day i told him i couldn't do it anymore and he said why and i told him that it was messed up how he was flirting with them and that i liked the old him he had changed and bluh bluh bluh. oh and i forgot to tell you, he hates to show any weakness even if he is really hurt he will still not show it. anyways so he was like i wasn't flirting with anyone but alright fine i don't think we should continue either but i hope we can still be friends. and i said ok and asked him if he still liked me. and he said no. and i said ok because im going to let this other guy get with me( he knows i have a lot of guys on my line). and he said: ok you really don't have to tell me that, i didn't ask, go ahead have fun. so it seemed like he got mad. but i mean why would he get mad if he just said he didn't like me anymore. and now its been 3 days since we broke it off and i haven't messaged him on facebook because i don't want him to think its effecting me and he hasn't messaged me either. but he always stares at me when i walk by in school and also tonight when i was at the park and he was with friends and at one point one of his friends came over and said hi and hugged me. where they talking about me? also we had this moment in the hallway one time that we both looked at each other for 30 long seconds until i broke it off and it was one of those like movie moments. so anyways what do you guys think about it? i really love him though, i don't care that i could have some of the most popular guys, i want him, they don't mean anything to me. its mostly because we fell in love with each others personality first because we talked on facebook for a year before we saw each other. so anyways how do i get him back? please help do you think it has hit him yet? what do you think is going through his head?
i know he didnt just want me for sex though, and i just need to get him back, do you think he still likes me. should i talk to him?

[Shania]

he wants to have his cake and it it too of course he is a guy but honestly he has feelings for you but lacks to tell you so he just hides his love and I think that he is a natural player



answer mine

[Valerie]

Reflect on the relationship you had with your ex boyfriend and ask a few questions to yourself. Was he sweet and kind? Did he neglect your feelings or hurt you emotionally, mentally or physically? You need to find out if he is really worth a second chance or someone you should never go back to.

Win your ex back and express your genuine feelings towards him by letting him know you truly miss him and he is always on your mind. If you ended the relationship, let him know you made a huge mistake and now realize he were a wonderful person that was perfect for you.

Bring up the good times the two of you spent together in the past. When he thinks of the fond memories of the relationship, he might consider taking you back.

Take things slowly so you can win his heart again by asking if you can become friends. If he agrees to, this should be your chance to explain yourself and talk about what went wrong in the relationship and the mistakes that turn the relationship sour. Your ex may definitely have something to say as he might explain how he felt about the failed relationship.

Ask if he does not mind hanging out sometimes. This is a great way to spend more time with him so you can ease your way back in his life as a girlfriend again. Visit places that you both used to go to so he can reminiscence about the days when the relationship was perfectly fine. If things go completely smoothly over time, go back to the first place you met him at and ask if he likes to be yours again.

Before making moves on your ex, make sure that he is not already taken. If he is, respect him and his relationship by staying out if it.

Making effort that you will be a better girlfriend shows your ex that you can be taken seriously and not playing games with his heart.

If you and your ex have mutual friends, find out how he feels about you.

Use the above tips, decide your action plan and have guts to show him that you actually loved him very much. He will be definetly yours. Good Luck. Have faith in yourself of making everything right and back into its place.