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High school girl need help?!?!?
12-07-2012, 10:19 AM
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High school girl need help?!?!?
Ok so I need help starting a conversation with a guy. We've never talked before but he liked my tbh on Facebook and he likes all my pics that I post on Instagram. I'm in a musical at my school and he runs the props and set so I see him there. He's the grade above me. He's really intimidating because he's older and a lot of girls like him. I just don't know how to randomly start talking to him. Help please!

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12-07-2012, 10:27 AM
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I think you should start with messaging him or starting a conversation through facebook first to make you feel more comfortable with him. Since he likes a lot of your posts it would be normal for you to comment on his post. Just comment on his picture or something. This may sound stupid but when people constantly like your stuff they have interest in you and possibly like you. A girl has done this and i happen to have gone out with her before. If not you could talk to him when hes doing the prop and talk about the musical or something. Its not that you don't know what to say rather you seem nervous on the approach.

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12-07-2012, 10:27 AM
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If he likes your Tbh and he likes your photos, then he is either just incredibly nice, or interest in you already.
I'm not saying that as fact. But as I guy, if I like someone, I'Ll like their photos because I see it as a subtle way of letting them know by deduction that I like them.

Odds are, if you bring up something, he'll jump right into the conversation and it'll just flow from there.
A really good way to do this would be in your musical. Any time during an open group discussion. It doesn't have to be that formal, but basically if there are a handful of you just chatting back and forth, and you have something to say, direct what you say towards him. Not HOW you say it, but say/ask it to him instead of the group in general. That is an excellent way to use the momentum from the group's conversation to get a good chat with him going. You should be able to tell from how he carries the conversation as to how interest he is. If he makes a worthy effort to reply or just keep the ball rolling, then that tells you that he doesn't mind talking to you, so you can feel free to bring up stuff whenever. After you both have talked a few times, he'll see you as more of a friend and less of a stranger, so things should flow much more naturally from there.
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