I want to add on FB this girl I already know in real life, but it's a complicated situation?

[Thomas]

because she actually knows I have a crush on her !

I've lost contact with her, haven't seen her for 3 weeks, because she apparently left her last job (which was in my neighbourhood).
I don't dare ask her colleagues "What happened to her? Where has she gone now??"...They might say "It's none of your business" or something.

So the only way to talk to her, now, is through Facebook
That's why I plan to send her a message and add her.

But I'm afraid she may ignore me, or simply say "Thanks, but I'm not interested, sorry".

The reason she might, probably , (and I hope I'm wrong), refuse my invitation, is because she knows I love her.
She saw me once or twice a day for the last two weeks, as I was taking a coffee in the café just the other side of the street...And also I used to drive my car in that street.
After all, it's my neighbourhood, and my house is so close to that café.

Maybe I'm "paranoid" or something, I don't know.
Did she think I was "creepy", and then decided to leave and work in another company???

I can't sleep because of this messy situation...

Even if I don't manage to seduce her, at least I want to get this drama calmed down!!

I even plan to apologize to her for my behaviour, but maybe it will get worse then !!

Can someone please give me a serious and helpful piece of advice, and find an happy ending to this situation?

Thanks
PS : WE ALREADY KNOW EACH OTHER , FOR 2 YEARS, BECAUSE I WAS A CLIENT OF THAT DRIVIING SCHOOL
SHE WAS THE SECRETARY.
I miss her so much

[cheesecakeman]

well what was your relatoinship like before she left?

and if you didnt know each other long, maybe you're developing feelings too fast. you can't be in love that easily, so you sound young

i figure, if you guys had something going, it wouldn't be so hard to facebook friend her...

i guess you can facebook friend her...that's a casual thing to do, then message her, make small talk, and if she's receptive, consider asking her

[Amz]

The best advice I can give you is to move on. This girl is not the love of your life. Stop stalking her and trying to figure out how to talk to her. She is not interested.

She is not "the one". Quit chasing.

[Annoyingcoil471]

Firstly, her moving to another company had nothing to do with you. You really only have two choices, give up or give it your all. Either ask her out with the possibility of rejection or just move on and forget about her.

[FizzySwiftie]

Calm down bro.

Honestly, you're jumping to conclusions that probably aren't true. You should just add her on facebook and make friendly conversation with her, don't bring her leaving up unless SHE does, and just treat her like she's an old friend. There's no reason to apologize or stress over this.

Good luck! And remember, everything happens for a reason.