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Why did he say this? Please answer? I'll answer yours!!!!?
12-07-2012, 01:10 PM
Post: #1
Why did he say this? Please answer? I'll answer yours!!!!?
(Im over him now)

I have no way of contacting him until next school year or seeing him around town.he always stares at me, he smiles at me sometimes, he goes in my personal space, he gets shy around me/acts different around. he tried to make me jealous, he stood up for me once, we always lock eyes (his eyes dilate, 3seconds-1minute), he's been doing that for 7 months.My friend knows him and she asked him who does he like and he said that the girl went to a different school(so I thought it was me)my friend: do you know(my name), she likes you?(she described how I looked) him: no , who the hell is she?(he was around a group of people when he said that.)( they don't talk anymore)Now it's a new school year and we go to different schools;I'm going to his high school next year. the last time I saw him, he looked at me like he was frustrated and then he looked like he was going to cry.I added him on Facebook, but he hasn't accepted it yet; he was on Facebook last week;someone posted a girls' name on his wall, he posted:who is this? Get off my account, i dont use it. so did he ever see my friend request? Was he trying to tell me something?

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12-07-2012, 01:18 PM
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you have to be blind to miss that type of guy you would have a lot of funs all the good guys are those types that you dealed he didnt wanted to say that he was madly in love with you and acted like he didnt know you when others asked because he was afraid.. Shame you lost him, now hes probably all embarassed and didnt even accept your friend request but the point is that he liked you but was too shy to tell

Did you guys talk or even hang out together? Or just tipical ive seen that guy before and knew his name ?

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12-07-2012, 01:18 PM
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Dear he has a crush on u and he has a crush on another girl at the same time or he has a crush on u and afraid o rejection or he has a girlfriend and has a crush on u ether way he has a crush on u
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12-07-2012, 01:18 PM
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WOW! That is a lot of he said she said! There is no telling why he said what he said or if he really said it. If you thought you had a connection with him you should have tried flirting with him to see how he responded or just let him know that you where interested. If you find yourself being drawn back to him next year, just bite the bullet and get the story from him. Then there is no room for gossip error. Good luck!
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12-07-2012, 01:18 PM
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Well, given that youre aware of certain effects of love and sexual attraction, like the pupils dilating, im sure you're aware that at one point he had feelings for you. Whether they were just lustfull or not, however, I'm not sure.

The only explanation I can come up with, is he is trying to move on or stay content without being in a relationship with you. Because at one point, he tried to make you jealous, we can assume that he's a jealous person as well. Because of that, he may have ignored your friend request in an effort to rid feelings for you. He may not want to see you in conversations with other men, or see if you're progressing in another relationship, or even see flirtatious comments from others to you. Seeing these things could trigger jealousy, or pain in him. Therefore, he will not want to give himself easy access to your personal affairs.

Just a thought. I could be completely wrong.
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