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should I stop talking to her?
12-07-2012, 01:22 PM
Post: #1
should I stop talking to her?
I had an arguement with this girl, we both liked eachother but she later on told me to " forget it, forget everything and move the hell on". Told me" its old news we are not close friends just heys and hellos when we see each other on the street or bus..."... I called her names but didn't cuss nor call her the b word but I called a rude and cruel person but later apologized and told her i still have feeelings for her but on the very same day I denied it and told her to never mind it, anything more than friends i dont want.

She was on holidays and I haven't seen her in 6 months. I saw her 2 months ago, she was on phone but she smiled and waved at me but I looked at her and walked pass her. I sent her a text message and apologized.

I saw her last month. She smiled at me and almost walked pass me , I was in a hurry to get the bus, so I may have looked conceited coz it was such a quick apology.
I said "hey"
she replied "whats up" with a smile
Me: sorry for the other day k?
She paused for a second and pretended like nothing happened and replied "Its no problem" she looked angry.
Me: okay see you.

Its was her birthday two weeks ago. She once blocked me on facebook but later unblocked me and is yet to add me back. I sent her a simple "Happy Birthday!!" message on facebook. She didn't say thanks nor reply.

I sent her this msg: hey, hope you're good. you're still pissed off Smile I'l call you tomorrow to say hello

I called her (it was already dark outside) she picked up the phone I said "hello is this (her name)?"and she said "yeah" I said "hey its (my name)" and she replied "hi" but the call was disconnected. I thought i was the one who disconnected it. I redialed her number straight away and her mobile was switched off. 6 minutes later I got a message from her saying "Bat died, makin dinner cant talk."

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12-07-2012, 01:30 PM
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Keep talkin

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12-07-2012, 01:30 PM
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I would just leave her be. When she's ready to talk to you she'll talk you.
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12-07-2012, 01:30 PM
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She seems so rude and always wants to get her way, just ignore her and if she starts the conversation you can reply but never start it first because that's clearly what she wants so that she can ignore you and be more rude
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12-07-2012, 01:30 PM
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I hate when people do that. Just because you aren't in a relationship anymore it doesn't mean you have to ignore them... Anyways, if I were you, I would. I mean why would she suddenly change and be nice again? I would just stop talking to her, you can't for anything.
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12-07-2012, 01:30 PM
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it seems that what she told you before was accurate. You're not close friends like you think. When people hang up and don't answer again, it means "leave me alone". I've had to be told this in so many words. Be glad she still smiles and waves. She's not your enemy yet, but if you keep pushing, she will be.
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12-07-2012, 01:30 PM
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Yes you should. Space. Time. Respect. Love. if you love her or care for her at all you need to give her the things I just listed. Right now she wants space, she has for a while. It will do you good too I promise, clear your head. Time, she needs time to blow over, time to think of what a relationship with you could be. You need the time to learn how not to apologize about everything, or at lleast not say things you will regret. Maybe use this time to test the waters more, find out if she is the one for you, be open to other women too. Respect, respect yourself enough not to pine after someone who acts like the air you breathe is a waste. Respect her enough to come to you when she decides what she wants. Love, love will come if it was meant to be, and if not go find it somewhere else. So yes, you should stop talking to her, if not for you, then do it because she asked you to.
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