she keeps inboxing me should i tell her why or keep ignoring her any advice/help?

[Ima]

Me and this really smoking hot girl had this fling over the summer and september but she went away to western ontario university for school and i stayed home to keep skateboarding to make it into a career i thought me and her still had a connection and i started to catch feeling for her but she gave me mixed messages all the time, she would like me and always text me asking if i was going to the party or whatever it was, than she would totally ignore me like she never met me before. I told her I had a huge crush on her and she said "awww thats soo cute" but the next day "on her birthday" i figured out she had just started to date some guy, she deleted me off her phone and twitter and i deleted her off fb and my phone aswell, a few days ago she inboxed me on fb saying "whyd you delete me" than i didnt reply and she sent a bunch of question????? marks to me. "i told her its to embarrasing to say it over fb" she replied with "i dont know why you cant just say it " i really want to tell her this "it kills me inside to see you with another guy that isnt me, i thought you and me had this sick connection between us but im happy for you that the main thing" i wanted to say that to her but at the same time i dont want to say anything to her anymore i think its time to move on also i have a weird feeling she will say something like "oh well than" or "i dont know what to say that" will it make it awkward if i say this to her becuase shes dating someone currently? lastly i inboxed her that i was going to tell her why but then i didnt even bother so i kept ingoring her to make her go bananas so i can have a chance with her in the future now she has sent me 3 inboxs saying "alright" "?" "or not" .....What do you readers think i should do? thanks for reading !!!

[nobudE]

Dude, there are only 2 periods in that whole thing.

[lothmak]

stop being a kid and tell her...

playing to "have a chance" just shows that you shouldn't have her already...

if you want her, tell her clearly; don't play around the bush or you'll just get ignored.

If she says yes, fine; if she says no, at least you gave it your all and you won't be asking these questions on yahoo answers.

[Pamipeaches]

I think , from experience you are too far away, and she found someone close in proximity that is turning her on, You arent thought of as much and she is not being straight with you about it. .So you think you are still connected and basically she has turned you away without telling you
You are REALLY low on the totem pole. .and low priority now.. Time to meet some new people. She didnt think enough of you to be straight and tell you that way.. so you can stop guessing.. now.

[Hannah]

you should box her back. i don't like violent women! :-)

More to the point now. You've had a fling, not a relationship. You need to get over that.
"awww thats soo cute" means: it's cute, but that's it. Nothing's going to happen. She wanted a fling and is now dating a guy. Sorry mate but it didn't work out for you. Don't talk to her. Delete her off everything because reminders can be painfull. Time, patience and a lot of distractration will solve this.

[Squishy]

Maybe it's not the best time to say anything only because it will put her in an awkward position. . It's happened to me b4. But if u really like her then b happy for her and just be happy your still friends

[M.B.]

You screwed up and now she's not interested.
You start by saying you had a summer fling which is what it was...a fling and nothing more.

Time to move on buddy since long distance dates never work.

Oh and for your skateboarding career....you better have a back up plan.
Unless you're Tony Hawk good you're not gonna make it.
Plus one injury could end your "career"