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GIRLS!!! I need your advice ASAP! 10 points!!?
12-07-2012, 02:32 PM
Post: #1
GIRLS!!! I need your advice ASAP! 10 points!!?
I've been talking to this girl for a couple weeks now. I had her over last weekend and we made out and watched a movie. She said she had a great time and left the movie over so we could finish it later. When I took her home i opened the truck door for her and she said know body has ever done that before. I dropped her off and walked her to the door and we kissed goodbye and etc. She texted me before I even got to the end of the driveway that she had butterfly's and about how great of a time she had. She even texted me saying that she likes me! But here is what is confusing, she never texted me back on Monday and started getting really short with texting me. I talked to her Wednesday night and said she needs to come hang out again. She said "I would be silly not to! Knowing how you are I had a great time last time Smile" so I figured she is just busy. BUT, I texted her friday night and asked her if she was doing anything Saturday night. She said "I'm not, is that an invite? Wink" and I replied yes and asked if she wanted to come finish the movie we were watching before (we didnt finish it b/c of her curfew). I didnt hear back from her so i texted her 40 minutes later and said that I'm going to bed and to text me when she figures it out. She immediately texted me back and said she said "yea I will come over tomorrow. Goodnight dear Smile" I texted her last night asking if she still wanted to hang out tonight and she said "yea after the game Smile" she texted me back saying "I'm sick Sad I'm throwing up and blagghh"
I texted her saying that I hope she feels better and if she needs anything to let me know
(There's a 50/50 chance it went through)
I never got a reply so I sent a text telling her how I felt saying "alright I'm gunna be honest with you I feel like your playing games with me..."
Her : "playing games? Why?"
Me "like you seem like you want to hang out but at the same time you don't.."
Her: "oh goodness! I really do want to! I'm sorry that I've been to busy or to sick to see you"
Me : "it's fine I've been busy to I understand. I just wanted to make sure I'm not being led on. I want to see you to"
I never got a response so 30 minutes later I sent "alright we'll I'm going to bed... Goodnight Smile text me tomorrow."
She immediately replied "goodnight dearSmile"
She never texted me yesterday. And she has yet to text me today. I went to look at her fb and i couldn't search it. I logged out and googled her name but still nothing came up. I looked at her ex bf and his relationship status says in a relationship. (who she dumped originally b/c he has anger problems)
I think she blocked me b/c I saw her get on to fb when she was in class today. But what I don't understand is that she still talked to me as if she likes me still. She asked about my weekend and talked about how she couldn't fall asleep last night. She was always smiling and playing with her hair. When we left class i just walked to my truck. And now I just got a text that said
"you just walked away Sad"
I texted her "I didnt think you wanted to say goodbye :/"
What is going on? What should I do? I need help please somebody!!!

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12-07-2012, 02:40 PM
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tl;dr
and I'm a guy
but it was worth the +2 points Big Grin

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12-07-2012, 02:40 PM
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She likes you! Smile I think she just thought you were being pushy. Just text her asking her if you want to go out. Take her to dinner and a movie. Go for a walk. Etc..
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12-07-2012, 02:40 PM
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First of all, does she have an unlimited texting plan? That might limit the number of texts she sends if she doesn't. She sounds busy; maybe she has a lot of friends, a big family, lots of chores, or was working on something else. If you wanna chat, call her. I feel it's pretty safe to stop a texting conversation at any point without telling someone goodbye; I know they'll see my next text (or vice versa) next time they pick up their phone, and if it is important, they'll reply (or I can) at that time. It's not like hanging up the phone on someone.

It does sound like she likes you too. Don't worry about the facebook thing; maybe she uses a fake name to stop her parents from finding it, and maybe her ex never changed his status or he is with someone else now.

I'd buy her a pretty flower and take it to her after school (so if she does shoot you down [which I don't think she will], it's only you and her, not the whole school to witness it), and see if you can set a day and time to finish the movie. If she's receptive, tell her you really enjoy hanging out with her. When she comes over to finish the movie, ask her to be your girlfriend. Good luck. I bet she's just as confused as you, so hopefully you can be straight forward enough with her to clear up those "does he really like me? OMG, I am not sure" feelings
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