Is it REALLY normal for guys in relationships to watch so much porn?

[S]

My boyfriend is really into watching female masturbation videos on the internet, and on twitter he follows a few accounts that post hot pictures of mostly naked girls. Not gonna lie, but it does make me feel terribly inadequate.

I know he's attracted to me. We have great sex, and he's told me that our sex is the best he's ever had. I feel the same way. I don't even know if this is normal, but during masturbation, for me, I really don't think about other men. I can appreciate a good looking man, but they don't cross my mind when I'm pleasuring myself. I don't know if this is sad, but I do fantasize about my boyfriend. Usually people fantasize about people that are somewhat unattainable, but nope, I am incredibly turned on by the one I have.

So with all this in mind, I feel really bothered by the fact that I can't do the same for him. Being attracted to other people is something no one can help, but the idea of him scrolling through pictures of so many other, hot, naked girls while I, on the other hand, am probably at home thinking about him... yeah, that really doesn't sit well with me. I always thought guys who weren't having sex or guys who were unhappy with the sex in their relationship were the ones who were so into pornography. I'd love a second opinion on all this!

[Christina]

Yes, its normal for guys to watch that much porn. Some guys have to watch porn several hours a day. Its normal and there isn't anything indicating, that he's not into you. Its just visual stimulation which guys need on a daily basis

[Max]

Simple, he is addicted to porn. That's actually normal whether you are single or in one. If your past activities revolved around viewing porn on a daily basis it becomes a natural habit from the brain to seek out this addiction. I am a guy and when i really liked this girl i literally stopped watching porn becasue i wasnt addicted to it and that the fact that i really liked this girl, all i could think about is her and even if i masturbated, it would be her face i would be seeing. So to add to the fact if she was my girlfriend why would i ever even need to think or see any other girls when i have the prettiest one in front of me? Obviously its becasue i am in love with her.

[MD23]

Guys think other girls are hot too. Just because they have a girlfriend doesn't mean they won't see another girl and say or think how hot she is. My friends have girlfriends but they always look at other girls. To be honest, that's how a lot of guys are. Our world is too horny...
That being said, I think that him masterbating to other women is a little over the top. And not just one or two...but MANY different women. At the very least I think he should be thinking about you at some point. However, looking at this stuff doesn't mean he is unhappy with the sex in your relationship. Some guys are just more "into it" then other guys, if you know what i mean. I wouldn't worry too much about this. I'm sure he still finds you super hot and i'm sure he is happy with you. I think your situation is a little unnormal but nothing too serious.
Hope this helps and good luck!

[wildflower]

Porn is an addiction, kinda like drugs or alcohol is an addiction. Porn is a demon and once it gets inside you, it won't leave, it won't leave you alone. It has control of you. Even if you want it to leave it won't leave. It is there to stay. The only way you can get rid of it is to begin to feed yourself on the Holy Word of God, the Holy Scriptures, memorize scriptures and get them down deep, deep inside yourself. 'N read the Bible often. And even then, you will have to ask God to make the porn demon leave you and set you free from it. It also helps if you can find a minister who knows how to pray over you and command the demon to leave you. If the demon leaves you (when the minister prays over you) the demon will try to come back later, when you may have a weak moment. But if you have received the Holy Spirit, you will be safe if you "resist the devil... he will flee from you," as the Word of God says. The best thing is to never let the demon get inside of you, but many ignorant people don't realize what they are getting theirself into when they get into porn. At the time it all seems harmless. And most people who are addicted to porn will make excuses about it and say that it is just a fun thing to do, it's harmless and nothing to be concerned about. But the truth is... is that porn is destructive to relationships between a man and a woman.