I'm too scared to talk to her?

[Luke]

Hi, I've known this girl in my school now for just under two months (we're both 16), it started when she messaged me on facebook and she gave me her number. About 2 weeks after we started talking she text me asking would I ever see her as more than a friend and that she really likes me, I told her yes and that I liked her as well. She then said that she would like to get to know me better and said we should meet up sometime to properly get to know each other, we never actually got round to meeting up. The week after this I made the stupid mistake of asking her to be my girlfriend (I got way too ahead of myself), understandably she rejected me because she didn't know me well enough, I understood her reaction but I kept beating myself up over it. After this we stopped talking at school because things seemed really weird (she is usually the one who comes and talks to me), she then text me saying why have we stopped talking, and I said that I didn't know how to approach things after the previous week. She understood but said that she can't make all the effort to initiate conversation. Since then and now we haven't spoken at school but we still text, I know she is expecting me to go over and talk to her but for some reason i'm too scared to and I don't know why. I'm a shy person and have slight social anxiety about meeting new people (she is usually with her friends), but I have no idea why i'm so scared to talk to her, I don't know if its embarrassment due to me getting rejected, or fear that she might change her mind about me when she gets to know me. I have no idea whats holding me back because she has made it clear that she likes me but i'm really nervous about approaching her when she is with her friends. I get the feeling that i'll end up losing her because of this and I really like her so I don't want this to happen.
So basically how do I go about getting rid of these anxious feelings that are stopping me from talking to her because I have no idea what is holding me back. Thanks.

[Daniils]

Man your so stupid life isn't like a bond movie, you go out with girls, talk to them, they get to know you and you get to know them. Then on like the 2nd or 3rd date you hold hands, then you kiss and then you kinda become lovebirds. Why you stopped talkin? You had to pretend like nothing happened and start it off smoothly. According to your story your very inexperienced for your age so maybe you should forget about dating for next 2 years.

[tiger]

Simple, just keep being friendly, if all else fails and nothing happens between you and her, she has friends.

You may fail and not succeed at winning her over, or you may succeed. If you do not try you will fail regardless. Fear lives inside you, no one is fearless. Some are just more intimate with their fear.

From now on you must make it a rule to hit on 4 women per day. The clerk at the gas station, the lady at the mall. Some chick walking down the road. Look at their reactions and that will help you to see what works, and what does not. It will also get you over your uncertainty, as these women will not remember you, nor will you likely see them again. Once you get use to the act, you can venture forth to the girls in your school, who will only remember you till graduation.