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12-08-2012, 10:20 AM
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Who is in the wrong in this situation?
Ok right so a guy is at a college organised party and his friend gave him MDMA (ecstasy) for his first time (if you didnt know it makes pepole want to dance and feel attached to others). Once the drug was having a massive effect the guy and his friend decided to go find some girls. The guy meets this girl and they get chatting and after the guy asked if she would like to come back to the flat him and his friends are staying at. And at this point the girl announced to the guy she has a boyfriend but the guy and girl stayed with eachother all night and at one point the girl notices somethings not right with the guy so he told her he had taken MDMA. She just laughed about it and they got on with the night. Over new year the guy messaged her on facebook to see how she was and how her new year was she just told him it was spent with the boyfriend how about you and the guy said spent with a few friends and she just put cool. After this everytime they would see eachother at college the girl would ignore the guy. So can someone tell me who is in the wrong here as im so confused by the way this is a true story about my good friend and this situation has left him a very confused state so who is in the wrong?
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12-08-2012, 10:28 AM
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12-08-2012, 10:28 AM
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well, as they say, there are two sides to every story. look on both sides. the guy could be wrong for taking the ecstasy in the first place. the girl could also be wrong in not pointing out that she had a boyfriend in the first place. however, by reading just this (there could be a back story, i don't know) i feel that the guy is the one who is wrong. from my perspective. it could be different for other people. i hope this helped!
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12-08-2012, 10:28 AM
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Well the girl who cheated did something wrong but besides that I don't think they really did anything wrong they just had a one night stand nothing wrong with that (unless your in a relationship)
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12-08-2012, 10:28 AM
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Tell your friend(the boy) to go and have a chat with the girl to clarify any misunderstanding between them and stop here. Don't forget also that the girl has her boyfriend and your friend has no chance against the girl as she would still ignore him till he will decide to talk and remain as friends
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12-08-2012, 10:28 AM
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I think the girl is in the wrong not the guy. Reason one she didn't tell him right away (not his fault, but it was also wrong of him to keep on talking to her or whatever happened) reason two the girl is likely in the wrong is that your friend just sent her a friendly message then she ignores him for no reason at all. Probably because she thought he was trying to get with her. I say definetly the girl man. She was sorta leading him on and then told him, but didn't care anyway.
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12-08-2012, 10:28 AM
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wow what a mess your friend has got himself into!!!
but I agree with Jennifer there are two sides to the story and your friend was wrong to take the drug but the girl was wrong to not tell him about her already having a boyfriend. In my point of view I honestly think Its your friends fault because non of this would have happened if he didn't take the drug in the first place.... p.s: I hope your friend has learnt his lesson.... |
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12-08-2012, 10:28 AM
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Both are wrong in my opinion.
I am thinking your friend has started to like her and the girl seem to be interested in him too ( only in a flirtatious way). But because she already has a boyfriend, she avoids him at college. She is worried about her reputation. Anyway I think it's better if your friend forgets about her. P.S. Avoid drugs. |
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