It's really confusing but what do I do now?!?

[Anastasoulla]

It's maybe a big story but please read it.
I don't have a lot of friends, I am not so popular. My close friends are Stef, Kathy, Theo and Andrea. Well I feel like they've been ignoring me lately. Andrea now has got two new best friends ( my ex boyfriend and the girl who made us have a huge fight last year - but me and Andrea are "ok" now), Stef and Kathy are having fun together without me, they hangout, the meet at each other's homes, they are talking all the time about things I don't know, they are chatting on Facebook and they don't chat with me, anyway they are very close lately and they are ignoring me (they are not in love, they are just close friends). And Theo?! He is the only one who is still talking to me. But I don't know him very well, I met him last year and we became friends a few months ago. He is a good guy but we are not so close so I can't talk with him like I used to talk with my other friends! But he is the only one who still talks to me. I didn't have a fight with the others or something, I didn't even do something wrong! I don't know what's going on and I don't know what to do! I really don't want to lose my friends! What do you think I should do? Please give me advices and add a lot of details so I can understand what it's better for my friendships to do! Thanks

[mustafa]

i think you should start asking for attention indirectly by calling them for a movie or a sleep-over!!
best thing u could do is showbizz
do something entertaining
get famous and have talks a lot of talks with them

so the conclusion is be famous and show them that u dont need them all the time and they would automatically come back yo u

[Anubhav]

Heyi dear frnd.......
Hmmm......u know wht dear u r jst looking at the negative side......as per ur info, none of ur frnd is intersred in u bt theas a guy who wants to be ur frnd.....so y u jst nt go with him n make an awesome frndshp......for which everyone else speak off.....u know its important to hv a single gud frnd than to hv 100 worthless frnds.....n frndshp or love is always from two sides n nt frm one.....so without worrying a single more bit.....jst make a fresh start wid all the confidence....u will surely get ur "true" frnds.....
Always hv an attitude yrr......n be happy n keep smiling.....

[Jenna]

Become closer friends with Theo!! Just because you don't know him that well now doesn't mean you can't! Talk to him.. hangout with him.. just try to become good friends.. you can do it, you did it with your other friends! Also.. it's really frustrating when friends drift or exclude you.. try making new ones! Just put a smile on your face and make yourself seem approachable! I haven't been in your situation.. I guess I'm in the "popular" crowd.. but my secret is to just have confidence and be yourself! I'm not always the most confident person.. but I act like I am.. and it gives me that boost! I used to be incredibly shy but I broke out of that. Now I can go up and talk to anyone.. it's just because I do have more confidence in myself! Anyone can do this I promise. Always be nice to people, even if you don't like them that much.. this makes people want to be friends with you because you seem happy and bubbly and just like a fun, nice person! I'm not saying go out of your comfort zone or try to be "popular".. but you can make new friends for sure! Start with Theo! He obviously wants to be friends, or he wouldn't be talking to you.. so seize that opportunity! And as for your other friends.. like have Stef and Kathy over your house! Or go out to the movies or something like that. Try to reconnect with them. It can be really frustrating because they're so close and you're not really in with them, trust me, I've been through that, but you can just try to have a fun time with them and it will make them want to include you more! Like have them over for a sleepover or something. As for Andrea.. I would kind of back off.. you can stay friends with her.. but it seems like that people she hangs around aren't really a good mix for you.. like the girl that started the fight.. and your ex.. you don't really want to be around that. Not that they're bad people, but there are some tensions that are best avoided, however, still be nice to them!!

I hope this helped! I'm sorry you're going through this but you'll make new friends!