How Do You Forget About a Crush?

[Dudeguy]

There's this girl in my school, we only have one class together and I've grown to particularly like her for some reason. There's those girls you look at and say "She's hot" or something like that, it's not really like that, I like her a lot. She's gorgeous and has a great personality as far as I can tell, she's really friendly. She sits near me in that class, talking distance though I am a really quiet person, I wouldn't say completely shy, just quiet, I generally keep to myself. She sits next to this other guy that she talks to a lot, seemingly more than just friendly talking and that sort of kills me.

The real question probably is, should I just completely forget about her and move on because I don't have a chance or should I keep torturing myself by thinking about her? I'd say she's out of my league but I'd also say she's underrated. My best chance of getting to know her would be to get her number and text her though I have no way of getting it and like I said, she's probably not interested.

She has liked a few pictures I posted on facebook (just funny pictures, not pictures of me) as well as a few statuses I've posted, that doesn't really mean anything, just figured I'd mention it. We have the same uncommon hobby, I can't say what it is in order to assure anonymity but that's something. Honestly I don't know much about her at all, what she does in her free time, the music she listens to I just know that I like her a lot which seems strange.

So, how do I completely forget about her?.. And is that the best move? I know it sounds ridiculous but I've always assumed girls aren't interested, I severely lack confidence because I am a little overweight
(6 feet, 220 lbs), I've always figured I'd be much more confident if I lost some weight though not all that extra weight is fat, I have a pretty muscular build... in this case meaning if I were to lose weight I wouldn't be super skinny, I'd be pretty muscular, I just have a big mid-section (lower stomach and hips)

This is probably what I'd look like if I lost 20-40 lbs (except with some added chest hair ):
http://images.t-nation.com/forum_images/...oto_12.jpg

So should I

A: Forget about her and force myself to stop thinking about her.

B: Try to lose weight to gain confidence so I will talk to her more often and try to get her number.

C: Keep going on like normal and see if something magically happens.

[Nunya]

Lose weight. You will feel better,be more healthier,be able to do things you couldn't do before,and have the confidence to ask her out. Don't get too cocky though. But don't loose weight JUST for her. Do it for yourself. So you can be a better you and feel better about yourself. good luck

[Justin]

Dude I know exactly what u mean I was like that last year I'm still over weight but I'm loosing it and even tho there's no significant difference I still talk to girls dispute my size if you talk to girls they will start to like you for your personality not your physical exterior.