My boyfriend messaged a girl to go back to his house.?

[niceseashore468]

Right before I get into it, my boyfriend is great, he treats me well, always makes sure he spends plenty time with me and has never done this before. Me and my boyfriend allow each other to go on each others Facebook because we have nothing to hide, but I came across a message sent to one of his friends who was a girl, asking her to go back to his house on a night out, when I asked him about it he was really calm and explained he was going to have a small group of people back to his, I don't completely believe him but I don't think this will happen again, he was very drunk that night & I already feel like I have forgiven him. What we have is really good and I dont want this one mistake he's made to ruin our relationship, am I being too forgiving?

[Helen]

No one here can say whether you are being too forgiving.
It's your relationship - you are the one who knows him. What do YOU think?
He was calm about it, and it seems a reasonable explanation (though a shame that he apparantly didn't invite you).
You either trust him or you don't.
If he doesn't give you reason to trust him 100% then things like this will keep on happening until you decide enough is enough.

[Becki]

Well if he knew what was on his facebook and he knew he had nothing to hide, Then he probably knew you would come accross that at some point? If so its probably nothing to worry about. Although i would keep a close eye on it but otherwise i wouldnt be very worried. it sounds like your in a good relationship. keep it that way. If you want to get him back at any stage though, you can never go wrong with writing a funny status like im gay or whatever. Always makes me feel better Ha!

[Adam]

No you are not tbh we all make mistakes and if you really care about each other this little bump in the road should not be a problem that's part of being in a relationship is to take the rough with the smooth

[rainie yang is hot]

maybe they weren't having sex they were just playing monopoly naked and he needed to pass go and collect 200 and it just slipped in .